Bethany Heinesh

Bethany Heinesh

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Dating: 20 years Expertise: Bethany has ghost-written hundreds of dating articles in the last 10 years for relationship experts all over the United States. Background: After going on many, many bad dates and surviving many, many bad relationships, Bethany is well-versed in the language of love and lack thereof. She has read countless books about dating and attended just as many seminars about human relationships. Bethany believes we each have a soul mate and continues to search for the man of her dreams, who, by the way, loves Scrabble, appreciates conversations about quantum physics and falls into the big and tall category. So, if you happen to know anyone....... Education: Bachelor's degree in public relations and is currently pursuing her master's in communication. Relationship status: Bethany is a single, 30-something gal who has never been married. Her two children are Majji, a calico cat, and Hondo, a Chihuahua with halitosis. Hobbies: Bethany admits Coca-Cola, clove cigarettes and the game of blackjack are her greatest weaknesses.

Bethany's advice

What Do Women Find Sexy?
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What Do Women Find Sexy?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 11/9/12

I am always amused when a man asks me what women think is sexy because it indicates that he doesn’t think he is sexy...(read more)

How Do I Learn to be Myself in Front of Guys?
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How Do I Learn to be Myself in Front of Guys?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 11/9/12

Ladies, there is nothing more attractive to a man than a confident woman. I know a lot of women struggle with being...(read more)

What Should I Wear on a First Date to Impress?
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What Should I Wear on a First Date to Impress?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 10/26/12

Guys, I cannot stress to you enough the importance of looking good on a first date. Dress to impress, honey. Your date...(read more)

What Does Planning a Cheap Date Say About Me?
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What Does Planning a Cheap Date Say About Me?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 10/19/12

When it comes to cheap dates, well, there’s no such thing as a cheap date. If you’re not Mr. Moneybags, but you...(read more)

How Do You Know He is “The One” to Settle Down With?
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How Do You Know He is “The One” to Settle Down With?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 10/12/12

If you’re anything like me, you’ve been searching for "The One" since you were old enough to date. You probably...(read more)

How Can I Tell My Girlfriend She Doesn’t Kiss Well?
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How Can I Tell My Girlfriend She Doesn’t Kiss Well?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 10/5/12

Unfortunately, women often miss the mark and lose the chance to exchange the kind of kiss that sparks a significant...(read more)

Is it Bad if I Have a Crush on My Best Friend?
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Is it Bad if I Have a Crush on My Best Friend?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 10/2/12

Ladies, it’s not unusual to fall for your best friend. If you spend enough time with someone whose company you enjoy,...(read more)

How Do I Mix Up My Date Ideas and Routine?
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How Do I Mix Up My Date Ideas and Routine?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 10/2/12

When it comes to planning dates, most guys fail to remember that a date is about nothing more than getting to know your...(read more)

5 Signs You’re Not Ready for a Relationship
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5 Signs You’re Not Ready for a Relationship

By: Bethany Heinesh • 9/27/12

Women often search desperately for a boyfriend but rarely stop to ask themselves if they are actually ready to be in a...(read more)

Should I Date a Co-Worker?
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Should I Date a Co-Worker?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 9/21/12

Fellas, there are two kinds of women you should never date: Your neighbors and your co-workers. Why? Because they know...(read more)

How to Know it’s a Real Date
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How to Know it’s a Real Date

By: Bethany Heinesh • 9/20/12

To be quite frank, we women have a way of complicating even the simplest of events, gestures and conversations in...(read more)

How Do I Break Up With My Girlfriend?
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How Do I Break Up With My Girlfriend?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 9/14/12

Guys, if you have come to a place where you realize it’s time to part ways with your girlfriend and you are going to...(read more)

Is Chivalry Dead or Alive and Well?
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Is Chivalry Dead or Alive and Well?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 9/13/12

I was recently struck by a comment made by a seemingly nice guy during a random encounter we shared at a local store....(read more)

How Can I Forgive My Boyfriend for Cheating?
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How Can I Forgive My Boyfriend for Cheating?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 9/7/12

If your man has cheated and you have decided to give him another chance, you must forgive and move forward immediately....(read more)

What Texts Are Appropriate to Send to Women?
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What Texts Are Appropriate to Send to Women?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 9/7/12

Text messages should be used to send a quick communique, a brief note or ask an easily answered question. They are NOT...(read more)

Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?
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Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 9/5/12

All too often, I meet men who teeter dangerously on the edge of giving up hope that they will find lasting love. Why?...(read more)

How Do I Know if She is Someone to Have Children With?
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How Do I Know if She is Someone to Have Children With?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/31/12

Having a child is a huge responsibility, one that requires an incredible amount of work, time and energy — not to...(read more)

How to Get a Girl in 30 Days
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How to Get a Girl in 30 Days

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/26/12

You may have seen the movie "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days" starring Matthew McConaughey and Kate Hudson. The film...(read more)

Do Opposites Attract?
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Do Opposites Attract?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/24/12

You’ve heard the old saying "opposites attract." Sure they do……if you happen to be a magnet. When it comes to...(read more)

When is it OK to Take a Cheater Back?
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When is it OK to Take a Cheater Back?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/24/12

When your girlfriend cheats, it is a devastating experience. Not only has she violated your trust and disrespected you,...(read more)

What Do I Do When the Same Person Keeps Asking Me Out?
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What Do I Do When the Same Person Keeps Asking Me Out?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/17/12

No means no. Period. Whether you don’t want to have sex, watch porn or eat a certain kind of food, you have to learn...(read more)

Are Women Picky Daters?
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Are Women Picky Daters?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/16/12

When it comes to dating and relationships, we women are often accused of being too picky. Guys complain that we’re...(read more)

Has the Internet Changed the Way Women Think About Love?
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Has the Internet Changed the Way Women Think About Love?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/11/12

It’s no secret the Internet is one of the most profound inventions to ever find its way to planet Earth. In the...(read more)

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What Should I Say in Messages to My Matches?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/10/12

If you have found a man you are interested in on one of your favorite online dating sites, I say go for it. Send the guy...(read more)

How to Date an Ex’s Friend
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How to Date an Ex’s Friend

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/6/12

I am often asked by women seeking dating advice if it’s ever OK to date an ex’s friend. While there are a number of...(read more)

Bad First Date Ideas
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Bad First Date Ideas

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/6/12

Guys, when it comes to planning a first date, heed my warning: You better get it right or you might cancel any hope of...(read more)

How to Get a Girl to Hold Your Hand
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How to Get a Girl to Hold Your Hand

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/5/12

If there is one thing women love, it’s strolling hand in hand with the man they’re enamored with. Well… most...(read more)

How Do I Balance Being a Good Guy and a Bad Boy?
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How Do I Balance Being a Good Guy and a Bad Boy?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/3/12

To me, there is nothing sexier than a man who strikes the perfect balance of good guy/bad boy. There is something...(read more)

How Do I Ask for More Space?
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How Do I Ask for More Space?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/3/12

There are two sentences a woman never wants to hear from a boyfriend – "I just want to be friends" and "I need some...(read more)

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Is it OK to Send Provocative Photos to a Match?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/3/12

Ladies, if you are looking for love on the Internet, I strongly recommend you present yourself as a strong woman who...(read more)

The 7 Phases of Commitment
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The 7 Phases of Commitment

By: Bethany Heinesh • 8/2/12

Just like every other human process, romantic relationships follow a certain chronological course and evolve in...(read more)

The Pros and Cons of Living with Your Girlfriend
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The Pros and Cons of Living with Your Girlfriend

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/30/12

While there are many conservatives who completely disagree with a man and a woman living together before marriage, I am...(read more)

Should You Tell Your Girlfriend You Cheated?
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Should You Tell Your Girlfriend You Cheated?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/29/12

If you’ve cheated on your girlfriend, you are in quite the unpleasant situation. Hopefully, guilt is eating you alive...(read more)

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What Does it Mean When a Match Disappears and Reappears?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/27/12

When you meet a guy online and he pulls the ol' Houdini disappearing act, there are a number of explanations that might...(read more)

Why Do I Never Get the Second Date?
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Why Do I Never Get the Second Date?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/27/12

If you’ve recently been on more than one date that didn’t lead to a second date, something’s wrong. While there...(read more)

Do Women Like Online Winks?
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Do Women Like Online Winks?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/25/12

In the world of online dating, where there happens to be a number of procedures that apply to Internet etiquette, there...(read more)

5 Dates Women Love
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5 Dates Women Love

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/20/12

Guys, if you’ve met someone new, or you’re in a long-term relationship and are looking for some great date ideas to...(read more)

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Should I Describe My Physical Appearance in My Profile?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/20/12

While appearance is much more important to men than women, the ladies do care about looks. Almost every online dating or...(read more)

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Is it OK to Photoshop My Profile Picture?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/20/12

Ladies, while it might be tempting to Photoshop your pictures and make dramatic changes to your appearance, don’t do...(read more)

11 Phrases Women Love to Hear
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11 Phrases Women Love to Hear

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/18/12

When it comes to dating a woman, conversation rules the nation. This is because most of the value a woman places on a...(read more)

How to Know the Difference Between Love and Lust
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How to Know the Difference Between Love and Lust

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/17/12

The truth is, women often have a difficult time distinguishing between love and lust. It’s no wonder because both are...(read more)

How to Get Over a Guy You Still Like
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How to Get Over a Guy You Still Like

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/12/12

Getting over a guy is like slowly pulling off a Band-Aid — for a little while, it’s agony. Then before you know it,...(read more)

6 Ways to Prepare for a First Date
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6 Ways to Prepare for a First Date

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/9/12

Being nervous before a first date is to be expected. After all, there are countless of unknown factors that accompany a...(read more)

10 Tips for Meeting Her Parents
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10 Tips for Meeting Her Parents

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/8/12

Meeting the parents is a major event, especially if you’re madly in love with the woman in your life and you’re...(read more)

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How Do I Cut Off Contact with a Match?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/6/12

The beauty of Internet dating is that you can get to know someone from a safe distance. This gives you a lot of control,...(read more)

How to Choose an Online Dating Site
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How to Choose an Online Dating Site

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/5/12

There are virtually hundreds of active online dating sites in the United States, and every day millions of men and women...(read more)

How to Pick Up Girls at a Bar
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How to Pick Up Girls at a Bar

By: Bethany Heinesh • 7/2/12

The law of averages not only applies to sales tactics. It also works in the confines of a dimly-lit bar with a dirty...(read more)

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How Many People Should I Message Online Every Week?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/29/12

One of the things women don’t do well is juggle men. Sure, you might be Queen of the Multitask, but when it comes to...(read more)

How Can I Judge Someone’s Character on a Date?
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How Can I Judge Someone’s Character on a Date?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/29/12

Judging someone’s character is difficult and certainly not something you can accomplish after one or two dates. It can...(read more)

How to Spice Up Your Online Dating Life
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How to Spice Up Your Online Dating Life

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/27/12

If you’re into online dating and you’ve been doing it for a while, your love life may begin to feel stagnant after...(read more)

How to Overcome Jealousy
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How to Overcome Jealousy

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/26/12

Jealousy can be a terribly destructive force in a relationship. My favorite definition of jealousy comes from...(read more)

How Important is Sex in a Relationship?
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How Important is Sex in a Relationship?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/26/12

The issue of hurried sex was best depicted in an episode of “Sex and the City,” which is the average woman’s Holy...(read more)

How to Get a Guy to Talk to You First
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How to Get a Guy to Talk to You First

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/25/12

Many women will concede that meeting men is easy but insist getting them to talk to you is next to impossible. Nonsense,...(read more)

Why Women Lose Interest
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Why Women Lose Interest

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/22/12

When you first become involved with someone, you can’t get enough of each other and it’s all you can do to keep your...(read more)

How to Be Seductive
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How to Be Seductive

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/18/12

Seduction is very much a part of the courtship process, if not the most influential element of physical attraction....(read more)

How to Get to Know a Girl You Like
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How to Get to Know a Girl You Like

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/15/12

If you’ve set your sights on a hot mamacita you’ve met while out around town, or you just became aware you’re...(read more)

Is it OK to Have Some Secrets?
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Is it OK to Have Some Secrets?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/15/12

Women often ask if they are required by some relationship rule or dating devotional to tell their man every little...(read more)

How to Use Social Media to Meet Men
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How to Use Social Media to Meet Men

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/14/12

Facebook and other social media sites like Twitter and MySpace have added an entirely new dimension to the world of...(read more)

5 Gifts to Get Your Girlfriend’s Dad for Father’s Day
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5 Gifts to Get Your Girlfriend’s Dad for Father’s Day

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/11/12

Father’s Day is right around the corner — June 17 to be exact. Guys, if you know what’s good for you, you’ll...(read more)

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How Do I Approach the Subject of Exclusivity With Him?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/8/12

Reader question:
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Should I Stick to My Parameters Listed On My Dating Profile?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/8/12

When it comes to identifying the characteristics we want in a partner, some of the traits we’re seeking are...(read more)

How Can I Stop Fighting With My Girlfriend?
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How Can I Stop Fighting With My Girlfriend?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/8/12

If you’re constantly fighting with your girlfriend, it’s time to reevaluate your relationship. Bickering is to be...(read more)

How to Approach Women at the Gym
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How to Approach Women at the Gym

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/7/12

Meeting women at the gym can be a sticky situation — pun intended. Most women at the gym are hot and sweaty and their...(read more)

What a Guy’s Pet Says About Him
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What a Guy’s Pet Says About Him

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/7/12

When was the last time you remember reading an answer to this simple question on a dating site, “How do you feel about...(read more)

How to Make a Girl Kiss You
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How to Make a Girl Kiss You

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/1/12

Guys, if you’re wondering how to get a girl to kiss you or you're waiting for her to make a move, you may be waiting a...(read more)

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What Are My Chances of Meeting Someone I End Up With Online?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 6/1/12

Online dating has quickly become a contender among the traditional ways people meet and fall in love. In fact,...(read more)

How to Know the Relationship is Worth Saving
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How to Know the Relationship is Worth Saving

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/29/12

If you’re in a relationship that seems to be falling apart at the seams, fear not. No matter how hopeless it may seem,...(read more)

How to Become “The One”
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How to Become “The One”

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/28/12

I rallied some of my single guy friends together over a hamburger and fries recently and talked to them about love, sex...(read more)

Pros and Cons of Going on Blind Dates
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Pros and Cons of Going on Blind Dates

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/28/12

Blind date. Two of the most feared words in the English language. Why? Because they represent one of the most feared...(read more)

What Can You Learn About a Woman From Her Friends?
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What Can You Learn About a Woman From Her Friends?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/27/12

Remember the old adage, “Birds of a feather flock together”? Well, it’s great advice and completely true. You can...(read more)

How Can I Take More Initiative in My Dating Life?
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How Can I Take More Initiative in My Dating Life?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/25/12

Guys, if you are looking for someone special and you haven’t found her yet, it’s time to kick your efforts up a...(read more)

How Do I Get My Ex Back?
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How Do I Get My Ex Back?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/25/12

If you broke up with your ex and realize you’ve made a horrible mistake and want her back, chances are she’ll give...(read more)

How Do I Calm My Nerves Before a Date?
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How Do I Calm My Nerves Before a Date?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/25/12

Yes, going on a date can be a frightening experience. Feeling anxious, nervous — even nauseous — is completely...(read more)

What if I Prefer Texting Over Talking on the Phone?
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What if I Prefer Texting Over Talking on the Phone?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/25/12

Texting is a very popular way to communicate, and it has certainly changed the landscape of the dating scene. Instant...(read more)

How Can I Juggle More Than One Date at a Time?
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How Can I Juggle More Than One Date at a Time?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/25/12

Ladies, juggling more than one date at a time is not a good idea. You’ve heard the saying, “One day at a time.”...(read more)

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Should I Set Up a Dating Profile on More Than One Site?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/25/12

Guys, if you’re trying to find Miss Right online, I suggest you strengthen the odds by setting up profiles on more...(read more)

What Does Your Playlist Say About You as a Dater?
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What Does Your Playlist Say About You as a Dater?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/24/12

You can tell a lot about a person by what kind of music they listen to. I can remember several guys who ran me off when...(read more)

Should You Listen to a Friend’s Dating Advice?
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Should You Listen to a Friend’s Dating Advice?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/21/12

Women talk with their girlfriends about everything. Am I right, ladies? There is no subject off limits, and there...(read more)

How Do I Improve My Kissing Skills?
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How Do I Improve My Kissing Skills?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/18/12

Ladies, one of the most important elements of romance, at least in my estimation, is the kiss. There is something...(read more)

How Long Should I Wait to Call/Text a Girl Back?
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How Long Should I Wait to Call/Text a Girl Back?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/18/12

I still don’t understand why men struggle with how long to wait before calling and texting a girl back. It’s not...(read more)

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How Can Online Dating Improve My Love Life?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/18/12

I am a big proponent of online dating. I think it is a great way to meet men. Today’s popular matchmaking sites make...(read more)

Removing Exes From Your Social Media Profiles
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Removing Exes From Your Social Media Profiles

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/15/12

Social media has created an entirely new set of rules for men and women playing the field and trying their luck on the...(read more)

How to Recover From a Bad First Impression Online
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How to Recover From a Bad First Impression Online

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/14/12

Every day millions of Americans go online looking for love. We join dating sites, build elaborate online profiles and...(read more)

Am I Still in the Friend Zone?
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Am I Still in the Friend Zone?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/11/12

Reader Question:
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Is There an Appropriate Age to Start Dating Online?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/11/12

If you’re 18 years old and are so inclined to begin dating online, go for it, girlfriend. Typically, most Internet...(read more)

How Do I Deal with My Girlfriend Making More Money Than I Do?
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How Do I Deal with My Girlfriend Making More Money Than I Do?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/11/12

Guys, if you’re feeling insecure because your woman makes more money than you, may I suggest you build a bridge and...(read more)

How to Know You’re a Rebound
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How to Know You’re a Rebound

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/9/12

At first glance, a rebound relationship is an alluring alternative to heartbreak. Blinded by the pain of rejection,...(read more)

How to Date Modern Men
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How to Date Modern Men

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/8/12

The modern man is a fascinating specimen, indeed. Men can be cryptic, non-communicative and downright frustrating....(read more)

How to Explain Your Dating History
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How to Explain Your Dating History

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/7/12

One of the most uncomfortable things to talk about with a new boyfriend is an old boyfriend. Unfortunately, the...(read more)

5 Signs She’s Cheating on You
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5 Signs She’s Cheating on You

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/6/12

Most of us have had the misfortune of being in a relationship where your significant other or you yourself cheated.
...(read more)

Does He Like Me?
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Does He Like Me?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/4/12

Reader Question:
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4 Lame Breakup Excuses Women Use
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4 Lame Breakup Excuses Women Use

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/4/12

Dealing with a breakup is one of life’s most difficult challenges. When a relationship ends, life takes on a...(read more)

When Should We Talk About Monogamy?
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When Should We Talk About Monogamy?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/4/12

Typically, monogamy is the end goal most women have when it comes to dating. Although there are plenty of women out...(read more)

Does Appearance Really Matter to Women?
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Does Appearance Really Matter to Women?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/2/12

When it comes to body image, guys crack me up. I watch you spend thousands of dollars on gym memberships, expensive...(read more)

Has Online Dating Made Women Lazy Daters?
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Has Online Dating Made Women Lazy Daters?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 5/1/12

When planet Earth was making way for the age of technology, many were just fine with a pen and paper. Today, however,...(read more)

How Do I Say No to Future Dates?
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How Do I Say No to Future Dates?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/27/12

Ladies, when we meet a guy and we don’t click with him, we know early on there won’t be any future dates, let alone...(read more)

How Do I Deal with My Boyfriend’s Jealousy?
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How Do I Deal with My Boyfriend’s Jealousy?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/27/12

When your guy gets jealous, it can make you feel secure in your relationship. You think, “If he is getting jealous, he...(read more)

Why Your Match Hasn’t Responded
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Why Your Match Hasn’t Responded

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/26/12

Before you venture out alone into the vast world of cyber dating, I wouldn’t feel good about myself if I didn’t...(read more)

Why She Hasn’t Called?
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Why She Hasn’t Called?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/22/12

In the world of dating, sometimes we meet someone we click with immediately. We feel a passion so intense that we never...(read more)

What to Do When You Have Nothing in Common with Him
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What to Do When You Have Nothing in Common with Him

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/21/12

We’ve all been at a restaurant with a date having a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad time. This is most likely to...(read more)

How Do I Bring Up Sex in a New Relationship?
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How Do I Bring Up Sex in a New Relationship?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/20/12

Guys, when it comes to sex and a new relationship, sex should be the furthest thing from your mind. Talking, listening,...(read more)

How to Get a Shy Woman to Initiate
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How to Get a Shy Woman to Initiate

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/20/12

There are a lot of women who struggle with being shy and wish they could be more outgoing. They find it almost...(read more)

Should I Ask a Guy for His Number?
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Should I Ask a Guy for His Number?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/20/12

I recognize that in many ways I’m old fashioned. I believe, as a rule, men should initiate the “firsts” in a...(read more)

To Text or to Call, That is the Question
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To Text or to Call, That is the Question

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/20/12

In the area of romance, communication plays a vital role in the natural progression of a relationship, but it’s no...(read more)

What Her Profile Picture Says About Her
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What Her Profile Picture Says About Her

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/18/12

Internet dating can be quite perplexing. On the one hand, surfing the Web for the woman of your dreams is easy and...(read more)

How to Turn a One-Night Stand Into a Relationship
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How to Turn a One-Night Stand Into a Relationship

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/17/12

First dates. We love ‘em. We hate ‘em. We love them because they can be a thrilling experience. The first date has...(read more)

Decoding His Mixed Signals
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Decoding His Mixed Signals

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/14/12

The most integral aspect of any relationship is communication. We meet someone and talk with them so we can get to know...(read more)

How Long Should I Wait to Call a Girl After a Date?
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How Long Should I Wait to Call a Girl After a Date?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/13/12

The rules of telephone etiquette are simple and finite. Guys, if you have an awesome date with a woman, don’t play...(read more)

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Am I Limiting Myself by Only Dating Online?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/13/12

Even though online dating has become a viable way to get dates and meet up with eligible bachelors, if you only date men...(read more)

How Do I Politely End a Date When I Know the Person is Not for Me?
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How Do I Politely End a Date When I Know the Person is Not for Me?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/13/12

We’ve all been there – the dreaded first date and a bad first date at that! If you’ve found yourself in a...(read more)

Is it OK to Date an Older Man?
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Is it OK to Date an Older Man?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/13/12

As far as I am concerned, true love is blind. It knows no color, age or affliction. There is nothing taboo about falling...(read more)

What Topics are Appropriate to Talk About on the First Date?
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What Topics are Appropriate to Talk About on the First Date?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/13/12

First dates are like first impressions – you only get one time to do it right. When most of us think of the first...(read more)

How Long Should You Wait Before Having Sex?
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How Long Should You Wait Before Having Sex?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/10/12

We live in a fast-paced world where everything is moving more and more quickly, with people growing more and more...(read more)

Who Should Pay on the First Date? Men or Women?
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Who Should Pay on the First Date? Men or Women?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/6/12

Sorry, guys, I’m old-fashioned and I still say the guy should pay on the first date. Even if she asks you out and...(read more)

Does My Appearance Really Matter?
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Does My Appearance Really Matter?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 4/6/12

Yes, your appearance really matters, and no it has absolutely no bearing on your “dateability” whatsoever. How’s...(read more)

The Forgotten Fun of Making Out
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The Forgotten Fun of Making Out

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/31/12

Back in the day, teenagers used to go to drive-in movie theaters to “park,” which provided the perfect opportunity...(read more)

How Do I Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work?
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How Do I Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/30/12

Long-distance relationships are a challenge but they can be done. In many ways, a long-distance relationship is much...(read more)

If I Live in a Small Town, What is the Best Way to Meet Someone?
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If I Live in a Small Town, What is the Best Way to Meet Someone?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/30/12

This is a great question! I live in a small town, and I am quite familiar with the challenges that accompany this...(read more)

What Are Some Unique First Date Ideas?
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What Are Some Unique First Date Ideas?

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/30/12

Women love a man who goes above and beyond to create a memorable experience. While dinner and a movie still reign...(read more)

Beware of His Suspicious Facebook Behaviors
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Beware of His Suspicious Facebook Behaviors

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/28/12

When it comes to Facebook, it’s easy to start cyberstalking a guy we like, checking up on him every hour to see what...(read more)

Bachelorette Party Do’s and Don’ts
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Bachelorette Party Do’s and Don’ts

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/21/12

So your girl is getting married and you’ve been tasked with throwing the bachelorette party. Bachelorette parties are...(read more)

You’ve Got Mail – It’s From Your Soul Mate!
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You’ve Got Mail – It’s From Your Soul Mate!

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/21/12

Online dating has taken the relationship world by storm. In early 2012, several news organizations and agencies,...(read more)

7 Date Ideas for Spring
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7 Date Ideas for Spring

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/21/12

Spring is here, and many people say it’s their favorite season. The cool of winter has given itself over to the kiss...(read more)

OMG! The ABCs of Online Dating
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OMG! The ABCs of Online Dating

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/19/12

One of the coolest things about chatting online is the use of a distinct language spoken only on the Internet, a...(read more)

Single and Still Looking
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Single and Still Looking

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/19/12

There are at least 43.8 million single women in America. Being single has many benefits. For starters, you have only one...(read more)

Online Profile Tips for Men
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Online Profile Tips for Men

By: Bethany Heinesh • 3/17/12

There are plenty of articles written for women looking to find Mr. Right online, but not too many are composed with men...(read more)

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