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Brian Rzepczynski

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Dr. Brian Rzecpzynski, DHS, MSW, is "The Gay Love Coach." To sign up for the FREE Gay Love Coach Newsletter, filled with dating and relationship tips and skills for gay singles and couples, please visit www.TheGayLoveCoach.com. Connect with him on Google+.
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Cybersex: Is It Cheating?
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Cybersex: Is It Cheating?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 10/13/14

I often receive letters from partners in new dating relationships or long-term partnerships who are upset after having...(read more)

7 (Harmful) Types Every Gay Dater Should Avoid
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7 (Harmful) Types Every Gay Dater Should Avoid

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 9/4/14

When I hear people talking about the certain "types" of guys they’re attracted to and will date, I often find myself...(read more)

5 (Critical) Things to Consider Before Having a Threesome
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5 (Critical) Things to Consider Before Having a Threesome

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 7/21/14

Did you see the latest DatingAdvice.com study that reports gay Americans are three times more likely to have a...(read more)

4 Tips for Gay Dating in Small Communities
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4 Tips for Gay Dating in Small Communities

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 7/9/14

What’s a single gay guy to do when he lives in a rural area that lacks a vibrant gay community?
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6 Stages Every Gay Couple Should Reach in Their Relationship
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6 Stages Every Gay Couple Should Reach in Their Relationship

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 6/16/14

Life is all about development, evolution and progression, and as we go through this maturation process, there are often...(read more)

5 Easy Ways to Land a Boyfriend By the End of Summer
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5 Easy Ways to Land a Boyfriend By the End of Summer

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 5/29/14

I'm driving around in my car when the new dance tune “Summer” by Calvin Harris blasts out of the radio.
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Can’t Get It Up? 4 Ways to Get Back in the Game
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Can’t Get It Up? 4 Ways to Get Back in the Game

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 5/11/14

There are a variety of treatment strategies available for targeting the specific causes of erectile difficulties that I...(read more)

Can’t Get it Up? 4 BIG Reasons You Haven’t Thought Of
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Can’t Get it Up? 4 BIG Reasons You Haven’t Thought Of

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 4/29/14

Difficulties with obtaining and maintaining an erection are a common phenomenon that is experienced by most men at some...(read more)

He Has No Desire for Sex. What If His Libido Doesn’t Return?
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He Has No Desire for Sex. What If His Libido Doesn’t Return?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 4/18/14

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Bottoms Up! Can Two Bottoms Make a Relationship Work?
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Bottoms Up! Can Two Bottoms Make a Relationship Work?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 4/13/14

Question: Can two bottoms in a monogamous gay relationship make it work? The answer to this...a resounding yes!
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Are You Dating the Closeted Hottie?
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Are You Dating the Closeted Hottie?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/29/14

So what do you do when the object of your desire is a gay man who is in the closet about his sexuality? Are these...(read more)

I’m a Quiet Guy. How Do I Stop Seeming Creepy?
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I’m a Quiet Guy. How Do I Stop Seeming Creepy?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/28/14

Reader Question:
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I’m a Hopeless Romantic with Baggage. Is There Any Hope for Me?
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I’m a Hopeless Romantic with Baggage. Is There Any Hope for Me?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/21/14

Reader Question:
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Gay Dating and the Social Media Craze
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Gay Dating and the Social Media Craze

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/16/14

There are no qualms about it…we live in a digital world now where technology is king and information and immediate...(read more)

I Haven’t Had Any Luck Online. Can You Help?
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I Haven’t Had Any Luck Online. Can You Help?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/14/14

Reader Question:
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I’m Pretending I’m Straight. How Do I Meet Men?
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I’m Pretending I’m Straight. How Do I Meet Men?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/7/14

Reader Question:
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The Dangers of Being Attracted to Straight Men
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The Dangers of Being Attracted to Straight Men

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/6/14

One of the biggest dating traps for gay men is becoming romantically interested in straight men.
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I’m in Love with My Friend. What Do I Do?
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I’m in Love with My Friend. What Do I Do?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 2/21/14

Reader Question:
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6 Questions to Ask Before Reconciling with an Ex
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6 Questions to Ask Before Reconciling with an Ex

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 2/15/14

One of the big “question mark” situations that is quite common among singles is when their ex-boyfriend comes back...(read more)

Are These Signs He Wants to Get Back Together?
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Are These Signs He Wants to Get Back Together?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 2/7/14

Reader Question:
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Can There Be Two Tops in a Relationship?
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Can There Be Two Tops in a Relationship?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 2/1/14

I often get letters from guys who are in the throes of dating relationships with men of the same sexual role preference...(read more)

I’m in a Relationship with a Married Man. What Do I Do?
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I’m in a Relationship with a Married Man. What Do I Do?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 1/31/14

Reader Question:
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Lay a Big One on Me! Kissing Tips for the Gay Dater
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Lay a Big One on Me! Kissing Tips for the Gay Dater

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 1/18/14

Have you seen DatingAdvice.com's lastest study that says gay Americans are more likely to kiss on the first date than...(read more)

I’m Nervous About Posting Pics. Can I Still Get Quality Dates?
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I’m Nervous About Posting Pics. Can I Still Get Quality Dates?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 1/17/14

Reader Question:
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Is He Gay?
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Is He Gay?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 1/3/14

Reader Question:
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I’m Attracted to My Co-Worker. Do You Have Any Advice for Me?
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I’m Attracted to My Co-Worker. Do You Have Any Advice for Me?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 12/27/13

Reader Question:
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Are You Settling?
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Are You Settling?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 12/24/13

How do you know if the guy you’re dating is the right one for you? How can you tell if you’re REALLY with Mr....(read more)

I Want to Move On From My Ex. Any Advice?
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I Want to Move On From My Ex. Any Advice?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 12/20/13

Reader Question:
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I’m Batman. You’re Robin
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I’m Batman. You’re Robin

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 12/18/13

I’ve had an influx of readers and clients lately who have finally met the man of their dreams and are happily paired...(read more)

He’s 25 and I’m 20. How Do We Handle the Age Difference?
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He’s 25 and I’m 20. How Do We Handle the Age Difference?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 12/6/13

Reader Question:
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Meet Gay Men No Matter Where You Live
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Meet Gay Men No Matter Where You Live

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 11/27/13

One of the big questions surrounding gay dating is, “Where do I meet quality guys?”
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I Had My First Experience with a Guy. Should I Ask Him Out?
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I Had My First Experience with a Guy. Should I Ask Him Out?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 11/22/13

Reader Question:
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6 Ways to Get Over Him
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6 Ways to Get Over Him

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 11/16/13

One of the most torturous symptoms of the breakup blues is struggling with being able to let go of your ex.
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I Have New Desires for Women. How Do I Go About This?
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I Have New Desires for Women. How Do I Go About This?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 11/15/13

Reader Question:
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How to Gain Integrity in the Gay Dating World
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How to Gain Integrity in the Gay Dating World

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 10/25/13

One of the most common gripes I hear from gay men is the complete lack of social etiquette or regard they feel they...(read more)

I Have Fantasies About Being With a Man. Should I Go For It?
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I Have Fantasies About Being With a Man. Should I Go For It?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 10/25/13

Reader Question:
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Am I Confusing a Nice Attitude from a Straight Co-Worker?
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Am I Confusing a Nice Attitude from a Straight Co-Worker?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 10/18/13

Reader Question:
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A Dating Guide for Gay Virgins
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A Dating Guide for Gay Virgins

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 10/12/13

While our gay community is enjoying some well-deserved heightened acceptance of our identities and relationships in...(read more)

I Desire a Relationship with a Man. How Can I Have This Kind of Relationship?
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I Desire a Relationship with a Man. How Can I Have This Kind of Relationship?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 10/4/13

Reader Question:
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How Can I Ask a Gay Guy to Go Out on a Date with Me?
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How Can I Ask a Gay Guy to Go Out on a Date with Me?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 9/27/13

Reader Question:
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Should I Stay, or Should I Go?
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Should I Stay, or Should I Go?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 9/24/13

Let’s say you’ve been dating this great guy for a while and then things start to go south.
...(read more)

I Want to Meet a Nice Man. Where are the Best Places to Do This?
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I Want to Meet a Nice Man. Where are the Best Places to Do This?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 9/20/13

Reader Question:
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5 Signs He’s Not Into You Anymore
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5 Signs He’s Not Into You Anymore

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 9/7/13

So, you and that new guy you are seeing are in the early stages of dating?
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16 Good and Bad Topics for a First Date
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16 Good and Bad Topics for a First Date

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 8/23/13

The illustrious first date can be wrought with a combination of excitement and nervousness, causing you to potentially...(read more)

Do May to December Relationships Work?
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Do May to December Relationships Work?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 8/8/13

I’ve been getting a lot of letters lately from gay men interested in dating guys either much older or much younger...(read more)

7 Ways to Deliver a Pickup Line
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7 Ways to Deliver a Pickup Line

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 7/30/13

One of the most important make-it-or-break-it moments in dating is your introduction when approaching someone you’re...(read more)

6 Ways to Win an Ex Back
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6 Ways to Win an Ex Back

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 7/12/13

What do you do when all that’s on your mind is getting back together with your ex-boyfriend?
...(read more)

What the Supreme Court’s Ruling on Gay Marriage Means for Your Dating Life
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What the Supreme Court’s Ruling on Gay Marriage Means for Your Dating Life

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 6/29/13

With all of the gay pride celebrations going on this month, our community is paying homage to being true to ourselves...(read more)

Are You a Gay Dad Seeking a Sexy Life Partner?
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Are You a Gay Dad Seeking a Sexy Life Partner?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 6/17/13

It seems gay parenting is on the rise!
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How to Make Safe Sex Hot!
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How to Make Safe Sex Hot!

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 6/2/13

Despite our knowledge about HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections these days, recent studies point to a...(read more)

4 Steps to Getting More Dates
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4 Steps to Getting More Dates

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 5/18/13

In my experience coaching single gay men, I have found there are four main areas that, if successfully cultivated and...(read more)

Is Shyness Ruining Your Dating Life?
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Is Shyness Ruining Your Dating Life?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 5/2/13

A great majority of the struggles I find men having with dating stem from anxiety.
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All in the Name of Love: I’d Tattoo My Face for You
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All in the Name of Love: I’d Tattoo My Face for You

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 4/21/13

Did you hear the news about the young Russian girl who tattooed the name of her new boyfriend on her face after their...(read more)

Grab Dating by the Balls
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Grab Dating by the Balls

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 4/14/13

Anxiety can be crippling when it comes to dating, whether it be feeling intimidated about approaching a guy you’d like...(read more)

Should I Get Back with My Ex?
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Should I Get Back with My Ex?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 4/6/13

The decision to reconcile with an ex-boyfriend is one that requires much forethought.
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Where to Go to Meet Quality Gay Men
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Where to Go to Meet Quality Gay Men

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/31/13

“Where do I go to meet quality gay men?” is a question I hear a lot from single guys aspiring to meet their Mr....(read more)

Should You Have Sex on the First Date?
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Should You Have Sex on the First Date?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/25/13

Another common gay dating dilemma revolves around whether to have sex on the first date or not.
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First Date Dilemmas: When He’s Not Your Type
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First Date Dilemmas: When He’s Not Your Type

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/18/13

You’re brimming with excitement as you prepare to go out on your first date with that interesting guy.
...(read more)

My Perfect Gay Boyfriend
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My Perfect Gay Boyfriend

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/11/13

Without a strategic plan in place, dating can be an overwhelming experience.
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Does He Treat You Like a “Queen”?
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Does He Treat You Like a “Queen”?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 3/1/13

Growing up gay, we didn’t receive any socialization on certain rites of passage when it comes to love and...(read more)

The Breakup Letter Strategy
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The Breakup Letter Strategy

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 2/17/13

When you break up with a boyfriend, it can feel like your whole world is crashing down around you as you try to make...(read more)

The Single Gay Man’s Guide for Valentine’s Day
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The Single Gay Man’s Guide for Valentine’s Day

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 2/10/13

If you’re single, and don’t want to be, the Valentine’s Day holiday can be torture.
...(read more)

He Cheated and I Want to Talk with Him. What Should I Do?
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He Cheated and I Want to Talk with Him. What Should I Do?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 2/8/13

Reader Question:
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Approaching Him with Gusto
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Approaching Him with Gusto

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 2/3/13

Your eyes catch the handsome stranger from across the bar and you find yourself captivated — he’s just your type....(read more)

Coping with “He Didn’t Call Me Back” Blues
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Coping with “He Didn’t Call Me Back” Blues

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 1/26/13

You know the scenario. You go out on a first date with that incredible guy who seems like he meets all your criteria for...(read more)

I Met a Guy Who Lives in Another Country. Is it Worth Giving it a Shot?
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I Met a Guy Who Lives in Another Country. Is it Worth Giving it a Shot?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 1/25/13

Reader Question:
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Staying Friends with an Ex
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Staying Friends with an Ex

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 1/20/13

I often get letters from men asking how to go about maintaining a friendship with an ex-partner after they’ve broken...(read more)

The Gay Dating Journal
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The Gay Dating Journal

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 1/12/13

Do you approach dating with the best of intentions by only screening guys who fit your personal requirements but then...(read more)

I Can’t Move On. How Do I Get Over Him?
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I Can’t Move On. How Do I Get Over Him?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 1/11/13

Reader Question:
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Landing Mr. Right in 2013
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Landing Mr. Right in 2013

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 1/6/13

So, it’s a brand new year filled with hope and possibility! You’ve probably already crafted your New Year’s...(read more)

Is He Really Into Me?
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Is He Really Into Me?

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 12/28/12

Do you have a hard time trying to figure out if someone is feeling the same attraction vibe you are when you meet guys...(read more)

Dating Relationship Re-enactments
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Dating Relationship Re-enactments

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 12/23/12

Have you struggled in your efforts to snag a decent, quality guy for a dating relationship? Do you tend to be drawn to...(read more)

Becoming a Flirting Pro
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Becoming a Flirting Pro

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 12/15/12

I get lots of letters from guys asking how to become a more skilled flirt, and while it seems like a very sophisticated...(read more)

10 Keys to Boosting Your “Sexiness Factor” in Gay Dating (Part 3)
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10 Keys to Boosting Your “Sexiness Factor” in Gay Dating (Part 3)

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 12/3/12

We are in the final stretch now of our countdown of the top characteristics that personify a sexy single gay man on the...(read more)

10 Keys to Boosting Your “Sexiness Factor” in the Gay Dating World: Part 2
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10 Keys to Boosting Your “Sexiness Factor” in the Gay Dating World: Part 2

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 11/26/12

Welcome back to the second installment of our article series on the characteristics that can help you become an...(read more)

10 Keys to Boosting Your “Sexiness Factor” in the Gay Dating World: Part 1
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10 Keys to Boosting Your “Sexiness Factor” in the Gay Dating World: Part 1

By: Brian Rzepczynski • 11/16/12

Dating can be an elusive activity, particularly in the gay community where no roadmap was offered to us during our...(read more)

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