Katie B.

Katie B.

The Misunderstood Life of a Queer Woman
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The Misunderstood Life of a Queer Woman
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The Misunderstood Life of a Queer Woman

By: Katie B. • 5/18/14

I identify as queer and really enjoy being with women. I have been with women sexually and dated a few of them, but I've...(read more)

This Intro to BDSM Is So Good It Hurts
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This Intro to BDSM Is So Good It Hurts

By: Katie B. • 5/5/14

Consider this a very brief introduction to BDSM, often called kink.
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6 Ways to Make a Better Sex Tape Than Kim Kardashian
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6 Ways to Make a Better Sex Tape Than Kim Kardashian

By: Katie B. • 4/27/14

Who out there likes to watch themselves have sex? (Who doesn't?) Closet mirrors, mirrors on the ceiling, bathroom...(read more)

Hotwifing and Cuckolding: An Insider’s Guide
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Hotwifing and Cuckolding: An Insider’s Guide

By: Katie B. • 4/17/14

First, if you're not familiar with nonmonogamy in general, read some of my other articles. This one about my fave...(read more)

My 6 Favorite Threesome Sex Positions
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My 6 Favorite Threesome Sex Positions

By: Katie B. • 4/3/14

So you found a couple threesome partners on your free trial at BeNaughty, and now you're wondering how the logistics of...(read more)

How to Pick Your Third for a Threesome
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How to Pick Your Third for a Threesome

By: Katie B. • 3/22/14

You and your partner are ready to dive into some sexual explorations and want to invite another person into your...(read more)

How to Tell Her What You Want in the Bedroom
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How to Tell Her What You Want in the Bedroom

By: Katie B. • 3/6/14

Have you ever wondered, "How do I get a woman to give me a blowjob?"
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What If You Can’t Perform During Group Sex?
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What If You Can’t Perform During Group Sex?

By: Katie B. • 2/8/14

Group sex sounds hot, right? If you are one of the many men who have experienced performance anxiety in the bedroom with...(read more)

3 Ways to Get Into the Polyamorous Lifestyle
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3 Ways to Get Into the Polyamorous Lifestyle

By: Katie B. • 1/21/14

I have had men ask me before about getting into “the lifestyle,” which to me denotes ethical non-monogamy.
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Can You Have Marriage and Kids in an Open Relationship?
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Can You Have Marriage and Kids in an Open Relationship?

By: Katie B. • 11/7/13

How does marriage fit with an open relationship? What about having kids? Do I want those things?
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The Cons I’ve Experienced in My Open Relationship
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The Cons I’ve Experienced in My Open Relationship

By: Katie B. • 10/18/13

I have written many articles about my positive experiences and perspectives on having an open relationship.
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Can You Be Monogamous and Attracted to Other People?
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Can You Be Monogamous and Attracted to Other People?

By: Katie B. • 9/20/13

In Esther Perel’s "Mating in Captivity," she discusses the “shadow of the third."
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How Does Safe Sex Work in Open Relationships?
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How Does Safe Sex Work in Open Relationships?

By: Katie B. • 8/11/13

Practicing safer sex in an open relationship is much like practicing safer sex in a monogamous one, except you have more...(read more)

Inside the Life of a Swingers Club
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Inside the Life of a Swingers Club

By: Katie B. • 7/28/13

Our town is able to support two swingers clubs, and it’s pretty amazing!
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My 5 Hottest Threesome Experiences
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My 5 Hottest Threesome Experiences

By: Katie B. • 7/14/13

J. and I have had a number of threesomes, both with other men and other women.
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When Group Sex Sucks
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When Group Sex Sucks

By: Katie B. • 6/30/13

Sometimes group sex experiences are amazing and mind-blowing and way more fun than watching "Batman."
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My First Time with a Woman
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My First Time with a Woman

By: Katie B. • 6/16/13

My personal journey around my sexual orientation has been kind of breathtaking, especially as I look back on it.
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How to Talk Dirty in Bed
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How to Talk Dirty in Bed

By: Katie B. • 6/4/13

Two years ago, I was lying on our bed. Our two good friends and partners at the time, Kathryn and Jake, were on the bed...(read more)

Looking for Group Sex?
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Looking for Group Sex?

By: Katie B. • 5/18/13

Does group sex turn you on? Have you talked to your partner about getting it on with a third (or a fourth)?
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Can You Watch Your Partner Have Sex with Another Person and Not Get Jealous?
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Can You Watch Your Partner Have Sex with Another Person and Not Get Jealous?

By: Katie B. • 5/5/13

I have learned to understand and manage my (once extreme) jealousy since my partner and I opened up our relationship,...(read more)

The Secrets to Having a Good Threesome
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The Secrets to Having a Good Threesome

By: Katie B. • 4/27/13

Something everyone wants to know about is sex with more than two people, also known as threesomes and moresomes.
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How Do I Talk to My Partner If I Want to Open Up Our Relationship?
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How Do I Talk to My Partner If I Want to Open Up Our Relationship?

By: Katie B. • 4/13/13

First, you need to make sure you know why you want an open relationship.
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Monogamy Versus Open Relationships
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Monogamy Versus Open Relationships

By: Katie B. • 3/28/13

Let’s talk about some pros, cons and motivations of monogamy versus open relationships.
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The Different Types of Open Relationships
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The Different Types of Open Relationships

By: Katie B. • 3/20/13

I use the term “open relationship” interchangeably with “ethical nonmonogamy,” and I use both terms as an...(read more)

What Do Women Get Out of Open Relationships?
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What Do Women Get Out of Open Relationships?

By: Katie B. • 3/10/13

My partner J. and I met during our third week of college. I was 18 and he was 17. You don’t choose when you meet...(read more)

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