Mary Gorham Malia - Singles Coach

Mary G. Malia, founder of Gay Girl Dating Coach, is a certified singles coach, strategic intervention coach and author of the book "The Gay Girl’s Guide to Avoid the 14 Dating Traps.” | Connect with Mary on Google+.

Mary's Articles

July 24, 2014

Is Interracial Dating Harder When You’re Lesbian?

July 14, 2014

The 2 Essential Sex Toys Every Lesbian Needs

June 30, 2014

The Impact OITNB Has on Lesbian Dating

June 19, 2014

8 Cliche Lesbian Dating Questions Answered

June 5, 2014

How to Win Over Your Disapproving Father-In-Law

May 22, 2014

Lesbians Get Friend-Zoned Too (And It Sucks)

May 17, 2014

The (Real) Truth About Butch vs Femme

May 10, 2014

Can You Still Be in Love Even If She Drives You Crazy?

April 30, 2014

5 Ways You’re Being a Bitch to Lipstick Lesbians

April 23, 2014

So She’s Not Over Her Ex Yet – Is It Worth...

April 15, 2014

My Secrets for Giving Great Lesbian Oral Sex

April 9, 2014

The 7 Right Ways to Play Hard to Get with a Lesbian

April 1, 2014

You Realized You’re Lesbian and You’re Married

March 21, 2014

Your First Lesbian Love

March 13, 2014

Break the Lesbian Dating Code with Body Language

March 7, 2014

The First Date is Over. Now What?

February 27, 2014

Why Instant Chemistry Isn’t That Important

February 10, 2014

Are You Accepting Crumbs in Your Relationship?

February 4, 2014

It’s Not You. It’s Me…and That Other...

January 31, 2014

Does Sexually Experimenting with Both Sexes Make Me Bi?

January 25, 2014

Your First Kiss Post-Breakup. Are You Sure You’re...

January 23, 2014

The Lone Ranger Syndrome

December 23, 2013

3 Ways to Survive a Holiday Breakup

December 17, 2013

How to Get Through the Holidays with Your Girlfriend

December 11, 2013

Buying Christmas Presents for Your New Girlfriend

December 4, 2013

Why are Lesbian Breakups Peaking?

November 5, 2013

How to Kick Shyness’ Ass

November 1, 2013

What Do Lesbians Really Want?

October 15, 2013

Did She Break Up with You? Here’s What You Need to Do

October 10, 2013

The Amazing Thing About First Dates

September 18, 2013

My Lesbian Girlfriend Wants an Open Relationship

September 14, 2013

Should I Share My Sexual Preferences?

September 4, 2013

My Lesbian Love is Always Talking About Her Ex

August 27, 2013

How to Make Lesbian Dating Fun

August 16, 2013

Do You Want a Pen Pal or a Girlfriend?

August 2, 2013

Is Your Lesbian Girlfriend BTN?

July 27, 2013

How to Kiss a Lesbian and Turn Her On

July 17, 2013

Can Lesbian Summer Camp Help Your Dating Life?

July 9, 2013

How to Avoid Lesbian Mind Games

June 26, 2013

5 Ways to Tell She’s a Lesbian

June 13, 2013

Online Dating – The Lesbian Way

June 7, 2013

Watch Out for This Lesbian Dating Trap

June 1, 2013

The Key to Having Good Lesbian Sex for the First Time

May 26, 2013

How to Tell Your Children You’re Lesbian

May 18, 2013

9 Ways to Win Your Lesbian Lover Back

May 8, 2013

Should I Be Sexting My Lesbian Girlfriend?

May 4, 2013

Is it Time to Have Sex with Your New Lesbian Girlfriend?

April 24, 2013

Remember Ellen DeGeneres and Anne Heche? How to Date...

April 12, 2013

4 Steps to Breaking Out of Lesbian Lonely Land

April 4, 2013

Should You Stay Friends with an Ex-Girlfriend?

March 29, 2013

When Lesbian Dating Turns Into a Mini Marriage

March 22, 2013

Does Being Out Affect Your Dating Chances?

March 16, 2013

Your Lesbian Dating Past

March 9, 2013

3 Steps for Introducing Yourself to Lesbian Women

March 3, 2013

Lesbian Online Dating Requires Tough Love

February 23, 2013

Where Are the Lesbians? They Are Online!

February 16, 2013

3 Ways to Tell a Lesbian is Interested in You

February 9, 2013

The #1 Reason Lesbians Should Celebrate Valentine’s...

February 2, 2013

How to Date a Lesbian with Dogs

January 27, 2013

Are You a Lesbian? Are You Coming Out?

January 16, 2013

Where Can Marriage-Minded Lesbians Go to Get Married?

January 12, 2013

Dating Lesbians and Coming Out Stories

January 6, 2013

Dating Older Lesbians is More Fun

January 1, 2013

Lesbian Dating Doesn’t Have to Be Discouraging

December 22, 2012

What to Bring and Not Bring on Your First Trip

December 13, 2012

Holiday Shopping for Lesbians Who are Dating

December 4, 2012

Make it a Lesbian Holiday!

November 14, 2012

Where, Oh Where Are the Lesbians?

November 9, 2012

Lesbians, Listen Up: Two Dates Does Not Mean We’re a...

November 6, 2012

Real-World Advice for Lesbian Love

November 1, 2012

Lesbian Dating Rule #1

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Lesbian Dating Rule #1

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Your Lesbian Dating Past

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9 Ways to Win Your Lesbian Lover Back

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Remember Ellen DeGeneres and Anne Heche? How to Date...

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Should You Stay Friends with an Ex-Girlfriend?

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4 Steps to Breaking Out of Lesbian Lonely Land

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Where, Oh Where Are the Lesbians?

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Make it a Lesbian Holiday!

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Are You a Lesbian? Are You Coming Out?

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Where Are the Lesbians? They Are Online!

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Lesbian Online Dating Requires Tough Love

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3 Steps for Introducing Yourself to Lesbian Women

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Online Dating – The Lesbian Way

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My Lesbian Girlfriend Wants an Open Relationship

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Dating Older Lesbians is More Fun

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Real-World Advice for Lesbian Love

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The #1 Reason Lesbians Should Celebrate Valentine’s...

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When Lesbian Dating Turns Into a Mini Marriage

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Lesbians, Listen Up: Two Dates Does Not Mean We’re a...

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Does Being Out Affect Your Dating Chances?

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Dating Lesbians and Coming Out Stories

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Where Can Marriage-Minded Lesbians Go to Get Married?

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Holiday Shopping for Lesbians Who are Dating

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How to Date a Lesbian with Dogs

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Should I Be Sexting My Lesbian Girlfriend?

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3 Ways to Tell a Lesbian is Interested in You

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5 Ways to Tell She’s a Lesbian

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How to Make Lesbian Dating Fun

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Did She Break Up with You? Here’s What You Need to Do

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What Do Lesbians Really Want?

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Your First Kiss Post-Breakup. Are You Sure You’re...

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Are You Accepting Crumbs in Your Relationship?

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Break the Lesbian Dating Code with Body Language

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The 7 Right Ways to Play Hard to Get with a Lesbian

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Lesbians Get Friend-Zoned Too (And It Sucks)

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Why Instant Chemistry Isn’t That Important

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Lesbian Dating Doesn’t Have to Be Discouraging

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What to Bring and Not Bring on Your First Trip

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Is it Time to Have Sex with Your New Lesbian Girlfriend?

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How to Tell Your Children You’re Lesbian

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The Key to Having Good Lesbian Sex for the First Time

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Watch Out for This Lesbian Dating Trap

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How to Avoid Lesbian Mind Games

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Can Lesbian Summer Camp Help Your Dating Life?

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How to Kiss a Lesbian and Turn Her On

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Is Your Lesbian Girlfriend BTN?

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Do You Want a Pen Pal or a Girlfriend?

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My Lesbian Love is Always Talking About Her Ex

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Should I Share My Sexual Preferences?

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The Amazing Thing About First Dates

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How to Kick Shyness’ Ass

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Why are Lesbian Breakups Peaking?

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Buying Christmas Presents for Your New Girlfriend

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3 Ways to Survive a Holiday Breakup

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How to Get Through the Holidays with Your Girlfriend

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The Lone Ranger Syndrome

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It’s Not You. It’s Me…and That Other...

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Does Sexually Experimenting with Both Sexes Make Me Bi?

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The First Date is Over. Now What?

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Your First Lesbian Love

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You Realized You’re Lesbian and You’re Married

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My Secrets for Giving Great Lesbian Oral Sex

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So She’s Not Over Her Ex Yet – Is It Worth...

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5 Ways You’re Being a Bitch to Lipstick Lesbians

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Can You Still Be in Love Even If She Drives You Crazy?

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The (Real) Truth About Butch vs Femme

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How to Win Over Your Disapproving Father-In-Law

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8 Cliche Lesbian Dating Questions Answered

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The 2 Essential Sex Toys Every Lesbian Needs

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The Impact OITNB Has on Lesbian Dating

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Is Interracial Dating Harder When You’re Lesbian?

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Lesbian Dating Rule #1

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3 Ways to Tell a Lesbian is Interested in You

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Real-World Advice for Lesbian Love

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Dating Older Lesbians is More Fun

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3 Steps for Introducing Yourself to Lesbian Women

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Dating Lesbians and Coming Out Stories

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Where, Oh Where Are the Lesbians?

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Are You a Lesbian? Are You Coming Out?

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Lesbians, Listen Up: Two Dates Does Not Mean We’re a...

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Make it a Lesbian Holiday!

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How to Date a Lesbian with Dogs

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The Key to Having Good Lesbian Sex for the First Time

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Your Lesbian Dating Past

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Is it Time to Have Sex with Your New Lesbian Girlfriend?

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Lesbian Dating Doesn’t Have to Be Discouraging

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Where Can Marriage-Minded Lesbians Go to Get Married?

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4 Steps to Breaking Out of Lesbian Lonely Land

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The #1 Reason Lesbians Should Celebrate Valentine’s...

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5 Ways to Tell She’s a Lesbian

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Should I Be Sexting My Lesbian Girlfriend?

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Does Being Out Affect Your Dating Chances?

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Watch Out for This Lesbian Dating Trap

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When Lesbian Dating Turns Into a Mini Marriage

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What to Bring and Not Bring on Your First Trip

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Online Dating – The Lesbian Way

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How to Kiss a Lesbian and Turn Her On

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Is Your Lesbian Girlfriend BTN?

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Do You Want a Pen Pal or a Girlfriend?

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How to Tell Your Children You’re Lesbian

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Can Lesbian Summer Camp Help Your Dating Life?

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How to Make Lesbian Dating Fun

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My Lesbian Love is Always Talking About Her Ex

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Should I Share My Sexual Preferences?

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My Lesbian Girlfriend Wants an Open Relationship

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The Amazing Thing About First Dates

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Did She Break Up with You? Here’s What You Need to Do

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What Do Lesbians Really Want?

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How to Kick Shyness’ Ass

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Why are Lesbian Breakups Peaking?

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Buying Christmas Presents for Your New Girlfriend

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How to Get Through the Holidays with Your Girlfriend

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3 Ways to Survive a Holiday Breakup

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The Lone Ranger Syndrome

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It’s Not You. It’s Me…and That Other...

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Does Sexually Experimenting with Both Sexes Make Me Bi?

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Are You Accepting Crumbs in Your Relationship?

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Break the Lesbian Dating Code with Body Language

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Why Instant Chemistry Isn’t That Important

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The First Date is Over. Now What?

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Your First Lesbian Love

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My Secrets for Giving Great Lesbian Oral Sex

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You Realized You’re Lesbian and You’re Married

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The 7 Right Ways to Play Hard to Get with a Lesbian

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So She’s Not Over Her Ex Yet – Is It Worth...

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5 Ways You’re Being a Bitch to Lipstick Lesbians

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Can You Still Be in Love Even If She Drives You Crazy?

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The (Real) Truth About Butch vs Femme

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Lesbians Get Friend-Zoned Too (And It Sucks)

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8 Cliche Lesbian Dating Questions Answered

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How to Win Over Your Disapproving Father-In-Law

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The Impact OITNB Has on Lesbian Dating

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The 2 Essential Sex Toys Every Lesbian Needs

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Is Interracial Dating Harder When You’re Lesbian?

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I Don’t Know If She Likes Me Back. Is She Just Using...

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I’ve Developed Feelings for Her. Is She Into Me?

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Is She Playing Mind Games?

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Our Relationship Ended. How Is It So Easy to Walk Away?

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We Broke Up But She Still Flirts. What Should I Do?

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01/24/14

My Two Lovers Passed Away. How Do I Start Over?

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01/3/14

Should I Get Back Together with My Girlfriend?

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I Want to Talk with My Neighbor. What Should I Do?

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I’m a Pre-Op Transsexual. How Do I Go About Meeting...

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How Do Senior Lesbians Meet Senior Lesbians?

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I’m a Lesbian with a Disablity. Can You Help Me?

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I Can’t Get Her Out of My Mind. Is It Wrong to Be a...

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I Can’t Get Her Out of My Mind. Is It Wrong to Be a...

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How Do Senior Lesbians Meet Senior Lesbians?

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I Want to Talk with My Neighbor. What Should I Do?

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I Don’t Know If She Likes Me Back. Is She Just Using...

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03/21/14

I’m a Lesbian with a Disablity. Can You Help Me?

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08/9/13

I’m a Pre-Op Transsexual. How Do I Go About Meeting...

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09/27/13

Should I Get Back Together with My Girlfriend?

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My Two Lovers Passed Away. How Do I Start Over?

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We Broke Up But She Still Flirts. What Should I Do?

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Our Relationship Ended. How Is It So Easy to Walk Away?

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01/31/14

Is She Playing Mind Games?

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02/7/14

I’ve Developed Feelings for Her. Is She Into Me?

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03/14/14

My Ex is Sleeping with Someone. Am I Wrong to Be Mad?

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03/28/14

We’re Both Gay. Should I Make a Move?

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04/4/14

I Want to Meet a Nice Woman. Can You Help?

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04/11/14

I Can’t Get Her Out of My Mind. Is It Wrong to Be a...

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03/15/13

I’m a Lesbian with a Disablity. Can You Help Me?

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08/9/13

How Do Senior Lesbians Meet Senior Lesbians?

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09/20/13

I’m a Pre-Op Transsexual. How Do I Go About Meeting...

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09/27/13

Should I Get Back Together with My Girlfriend?

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11/8/13

I Want to Talk with My Neighbor. What Should I Do?

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11/1/13

My Two Lovers Passed Away. How Do I Start Over?

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01/3/14

We Broke Up But She Still Flirts. What Should I Do?

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01/24/14

Is She Playing Mind Games?

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02/7/14

Our Relationship Ended. How Is It So Easy to Walk Away?

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01/31/14

I Don’t Know If She Likes Me Back. Is She Just Using...

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03/21/14

I’ve Developed Feelings for Her. Is She Into Me?

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03/14/14

My Ex is Sleeping with Someone. Am I Wrong to Be Mad?

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03/28/14

We’re Both Gay. Should I Make a Move?

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04/4/14

I Want to Meet a Nice Woman. Can You Help?

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