3 (Easy) Ways to Tell a Lesbian is Interested in You

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3 (Easy) Ways to Tell a Lesbian is Interested in You

Mary Gorham Malia Mary Gorham Malia • 11/06/15

Is that hot lesbian lady interested in you? As lesbians, we want to think we do everything differently than straight women, but we don’t.


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Here are 3 ways to know if you should make an approach.

1. It’s All in the Eyes

Yes, it’s really that simple.

You see a handsome hunk of woman across the room. You gaze at her longingly. Suddenly she looks at you. And she holds your gaze for two to three seconds, maybe longer, and then looks away.

Keep tracking her and wait to see if she looks back at you again. Yes?

1. It’s all in the eyes

If she gives you the look again, things are heating up. She’s definitely checking you out.

Now wait. Be steady. Wait for the third time she gazes over at you and looks you in the eye. Yes! Eureka! That’s it!

Walk over and introduce yourself. She’s ready to meet you.

2. Check Out Her Belly Button

Yes, I said belly button. Where is her belly button pointed?

Is she belly to belly with another woman and giving you an across-the-room gaze? Then she’s not really available, at least not at that very moment.

When two people are talking face to face, belly facing belly, that’s a closed conversation. Don’t interrupt.

2. Check out her belly button

If the lesbian woman you are interested in is talking to another woman but her belly button is facing away from that woman, then she’s open to meeting someone else.

She’s indicating she’s keeping her options open by that belly button language. Be brave and take the first step to introduce yourself.

Look for her belly button and what she’s doing with it.

3. Lesbians Travel in Packs

If you’re the lone lesbian looking to meet someone new, breaking into a pack uninvited can get messy and mean.

So what do you do when you see that pretty little lesbian you’d love to dance with and she’s in a pack?

Well if you’re just plain out brave and don’t give a hoot what others think, you’ll walk right over and ask her to dance.

If you’re not that brave, then watch the body language she’s using and the interaction with the group.

3. Lesbians travel in packs

Is she floating around the edge of the group with her belly button pointing away from her pack? She’s looking, open and might be available.

If she’s hiding in the middle of the pack, it’s a good indication that even if she is single, she’s not very open to meeting anyone new. Or she’s shy and a bit afraid herself.

Again, if you’re brave, walk on over and introduce yourself to others in the group. See if they’ll even invite you into a conversation.

If they do, you’ll be able to inch your way over to the cutie pie and eventually ask for that dance.

So that’s three big, easy and obvious ways to read body language and know when to make your approach.

Now get out there and ask a gay girl to dance with you!

How do you know when someone is interested in you?

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