5 Ways to Make Sex With a Big Penis More Enjoyable

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5 Ways to Make Sex With a Big Penis More Enjoyable

Brian Rzepczynski Brian Rzepczynski • 2/26/15

The big penis is glorified among “size queens” in the gay community who adore and worship those men who are well-endowed with super-sized packages.

Ever heard Katy Perry’s song “Peacock”? Then you know what I’m talking about.

But as much as a big beef stick can get many of our tongues wagging, guys with oversized appendages can attest to the frustration that can come with having this anatomy.

For those gay men who love anal sex, having a large penis can sometimes be a pain (literally) and can oftentimes lead to unfulfilling sexual encounters when the “main event” must be halted because the man-meat won’t fit or the bottom is begging for mercy because he can’t take it anymore.

This article is for those bottom guys out there who want to learn how to accommodate a big member so as to enrich their sex lives, please their partner and take themselves to new heights of pleasure by becoming more acquainted with their bodies and techniques for enjoying anal intercourse.

Anal sex isn’t for everyone, so it’s important to be mindful about your sexual needs, desires and boundaries.

Particularly with a large penis, one must be relaxed attuned to one’s body. The anal cavity can be elastic and accommodate most penis sizes. However, it’s not a vagina and extra care must be taken to minimize injury.

The muscles of the anus are very sensitive and the friction and poundage that comes from being plowed by a penis (of any size) can cause tears in the muscle tissues that can cause bleeding and injury and is therefore a major cause of the easy transmission of sexually transmitted infections, including HIV.

Therefore, for the safety of both partners, using condoms is always recommended, and there are luckily many brands of condoms that come in extra-large sizes, as well as the possible use of female condoms.

So it’s important to check your motives and make sure that taking a big pinga in your backside is really something you want to do.

The bottom (receiver of the penis) is always the decision-maker with this, as doing it for the wrong reasons can lead to having a negative experience with something that has the potential to be very beautiful and enjoyable for both men involved.

So what are some methods for making getting topped by an anaconda more possible? Pay attention all you bottoms (and tops!).

1. Extend your foreplay period

Make it last! So many gay men do the wham-bam, and then it’s done.

If the anus isn’t properly stimulated, you might not even be able to gain entry. Even if you do, your bottom may be asking you to stop after a few short thrusts because of the pain.

Before penetration, make sure lots of time has been spent getting each other turned on so that you’re both writhing with ecstasy and can’t wait to take the plunge.

For you tops, make sure you stimulate your bottom’s “love button” by teasing it with your finger, tongue, head of your penis, etc. When he’s squirming around and begging for it, you know you’re good to go.

2. Slow and steady wins the race 

In the very beginning stage of penetration, especially for those newbie bottoms, it’s extremely important to go slow. No jackhammer thrusts at first!

Slow and steady wins the race

In the very beginning stage of penetration, it’s extremely important to go slow.

Make it slow and sensual. Slide it in partially, and then retreat. Repeat but a little more deeply this time. Keep teasing him.

As a bottom, your body needs some time to accommodate someone’s phallus, so nice and slow and be sure to use an ample supply of lubrication to keep things wet and slippery.

Tops, once your bottom has had some time to adapt to you being inside, you can then pick up the tempo, but it’s always important to check in with each other and communicate how things feel. Bottoms, it’s your responsibility to speak up if it hurts, if you want a different kind of thrust or if you want to stop all together.

3. Practice before the big event

One way to become more masterful at taking a big penis is to practice with the use of a dildo or butt plug. Visit your local sex shop, and they may even have some beginner kits available. Start off with a smaller dildo, and then gradually desensitize yourself to larger and larger sizes over time.

Again, lots of lube and practice lots of relaxation during your practice sessions. What’s good about this is that you are in control with everything and you can pace it out as long as necessary.

4. Start doing your Kegel exercises

Kegels aren’t just for women!

Start doing your Kegel exercises

Kegels aren’t just for women!

During anal sex, one way to have your top’s eyes roll back into his head is by practicing squeezing your anal muscles so that he experiences a firmer grip on his member when he’s inside you.

Just like with any muscle group, we need to develop and tone them, and the same thing applies to your anus.

By practicing Kegel exercises, you can have firmer erections, better bladder and bowel control, and a stronger anus to accommodate your partner’s penis.

Here is a video tutorial on how to do Kegel exercises for men.

5. Experiment with different sexual positions

Make sex more adventurous by exploring a variety of positions where you feel most comfortable receiving your partner’s sausage.

Especially with very large penises, it can be helpful for the bottom to be on top riding his partner’s anatomy because you can control the depth and tempo of how things go.

Or you can lay on your back with your legs around your man’s neck as you guide his penis inside by maneuvering your waist to allow the degree of penetration you need to get used to him.

These are just a few tips to get you started on enjoying anal sex with a big guy. A good book that discusses anal health and pleasure that might give you some additional insights would be Jack Morin’s “Anal Pleasure and Health.”

What are some other suggestions you have for our readers? What has worked for you in being able to copulate with a guy with a big chimichanga?

Photo sources: timeslive.co.za, renmanmb.com, mensjournal.com