7 First Date Ideas for Lesbian Women

October 26, 2012
7 First Date Ideas for Lesbian Women

Like any first date, you need to first evaluate the type of person you’re going to be going out with. Here are seven types of women and great first date ideas to sweep them off their feet:

1. The sexy type.

Why not think outside the box and take her to a pole dancing class? It’s a quirky way to get to know someone and get in your cardio. You don’t have to dress too sexy, just wear cute sweats and be yourself.

2. The sporty type.

Take her to a ballgame. Whether it’s basketball, baseball, football or cricket, treat her to a once-in-a-lifetime experience complete with stadium dogs and keg beer. What could be more romantic?

3. The fashionista.

Is there a local fashion week or string of high-fashion boutiques on the main strip in your town? Go store to store and try on the most fun fashion finds before having a fun outdoor lunch complete with wine and tapas.


“If you’re looking for great first date

ideas, think about the type of girl.”

4. The artist.

Bring her to an exhibit, contemporary art museum or the studio of your friend who’s a fabulous artist. Take it a step further and go to one of those “paint your own pottery” places and act like kids.

5. The athlete.

If you know she’s super into sports and breaking a sweat, then take her to a fun obstacle or ropes course. Just make sure to let her know what the day will entail.

6. The conservative.

If you know she prefers button-down shirts and khakis, then take her to a polo match, country club or out for a proper tea with crumpets and Devonshire cream.

7. The party girl.

If you know she likes to have a good time, then take her to a club for bottle service or an awesome live music jam. Again, let her know what the night will entail — i.e. party clothes!

If you’re looking for great first date ideas, first think about the type of girl you’ll be going out with. Then, and only then, can you have a first date that hits it out of the park.

Kara Pound is an award-winning journalist based in St. Augustine, Fla. She holds a Bachelor of Science in Journalism from Flagler College. Her work has been published in INKED, Natural Awakenings, Design Aglow, Memphis Flyer, Jacksonville Magazine, E/Environmental Magazine and dozens more. Check out some of Kara's work at karapound.com. Connect with her on Google+.

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3 Responses

    The sporty type? Way too cookie cutter for anyone to relate to this. I’d recommend finding more “types” by describing people on their personality, not by what they wear…

    Just treat her like a person, not a “lesbian.” No one likes being treated like a label.

    These are great suggestions but go with your mutual likes first and foremost… trying to fit yourself to her type is totally the worst way to start anything with anyone. I believe it gives false impressions of what you are all about. After a while, you will get tired of catering to someone elses likes without your likes being taken into consideration.
    Is staying in love forever possible? Respect each other always! Something about respect that just keeps you in love. And yes I have walked away from those where someone just didn’t know what respect was… familiarity really does breed contemp.

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