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|April Braswell • 9/25/14|
As a baby boomer couple, you might have read magazine and newspaper articles depicting the majority of women over the age of 50 have started menopause.
But what if your senior mate is over 50 and still hasn’t reached menopause?
It’s nothing to fret about, but her being premenopausal does have an impact on your relationship, especially in the bedroom. If you’re a boomer guy, you may even have avoided reading any of the health articles touching on menopause because it didn’t directly pertain to you.
You were probably expecting the two of you wouldn’t have to discuss birth control. You just figured avoiding pregnancy as a romantic couple in your 50s would be a moot point.
It’s perfectly normal to anticipate the freedom from concern for unplanned pregnancy, but not every woman stops menstruating at age 50.
She’s likely perimenopausal and is watching her cycle like a Peregrine falcon ready to swoop in on any slight variation in her cycle as a sign “the change” has started.
The average age for true menopause for women in the U.S. is 51 (according to National Institute on Aging). Quite a number of women haven’t reached full menopause even by the time they are 53, 54 or 55 years old.
Even though she hasn’t hit menopause, your lady is still fertile. However, she is fairly unlikely to conceive. She might be menstruating, but her egg production diminishes over the course of a lifetime of fertility.
What’s worse is if she conceives after 50, her pregnancy brings significant health complications for her, which the two of you will then need to contend with.
“Make your getting intimate conversations
practical and a little bit naughty!”
You want to avoid any such complexities in your mature relationship, which means as part of your pre-consummation conversations, you two need to discuss birth control.
Additionally, far too many sexually active senior couples don’t discuss condom use and the need to protect themselves from sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
Those boomer couples where the woman is in menopause often presume they don’t need to protect themselves. AIDS is not the only STD to consider.
Before you and your senior partner enter the bedroom, it’s time to discuss all of this.
Don’t be too prim in how you broach the topic of sexual safety, but you also don’t want to bring it up while you’re entangled on the sofa with the bedroom door open.
Make your getting intimate conversations practical, fun and just a little bit naughty!
Photo source: health.ninemsn.com.au