Senior Dating

“Seniors Who Swing”: Your Top 5 Questions — Answered!

John Melfi • 7/13/15

“Do you know people my age who are in the swinger lifestyle?” “Do any couples over 60 come to your club?” “Will we fit in?”

These are the kinds of questions that Jackie and I get on OpenLove101.com and our club site, ColetteClubs.com. We’ve been getting more and more lately, so we thought we would take this opportunity to answer a few of the most frequently asked questions from seniors:

1. Are There Swingers Our Age?

Absolutely. There are all types of swinger couples, including couples who are 60+. We see many of them at swingers gatherings, hotel takeovers, cruise ship takeovers and resorts.

Turning 60 doesn’t mean your sex drive has to turn off.

Turning 60 doesn’t mean your sex drive has to turn off. Older couples don’t have children in the house anymore, and it becomes a perfect time of life to experiment sexually.

2. Will We Be Able to Find Someone to Hook Up With?

There are people of all ages who go to swingers clubs. You will find most of the couples are 30 to 50, but we see more and more older people attending parties.

No matter what your age, you should be able to find someone to click with at a busy swinger’s club or party. Just like I would advise any other couple, just be yourself, introduce yourselves to others and see where it takes you (maybe all the way to the playrooms).

3. What Should We Expect at a Swingers Club?

I recently spoke to a couple who’s in their 60s. They have shared that as they have gotten older, they have changed what they expect to happen when they come to the club. They keep their expectations low and just go to have fun.

If something sexual happens, it’s icing on the cake. If not, then they still have a good time with friends.

At swingers clubs, there are many places to socialize: at the bar, on the dance floor, in the theater or on a sofa.

At swingers clubs, there are many places to meet and socialize: at the bar, on the dance floor, in the theater or on a sofa. Introduce yourselves to a nice couple and see if you hit it off.

Some couples come out to be around the eroticism of the club and enjoy the club for just that reason. For senior couples looking for a spark to ignite their sex life, a swingers club might just be the place to do that.

4. Where Can We Find Other Swingers Our Age?

Another great place to find swingers is on an adult social dating site. There are many that cater to swingers.

On these sites, you are able to search for other couples using any number of criteria, like age or appearance.

If you are looking for another couple in your town over 60 to meet and potentially hook up with, then using these sites can narrow it down for you fairly easily.

5. Are There Any Daytime Events?

Most swinger-style nightclubs don’t have daytime events, but there are resorts that do and some even cater to older people.

Paradise Lakes for instance, a clothing optional resort in Pasco County, Florida, is a great example.

Paradise Lakes in Pasco County, Florida, has a large nudist community that lives on the resort and also a hotel.

There you will find a large nudist community that lives on the resort and also a hotel. The pool stays busy during the day, and you can also meet other sexy couples at night at the restaurant or nightclub.

For swingers in their 60s and older, there are many options for experimenting sexually and many advantages to it.

Don’t let growing older stop you from making new friends and exploring your wild side!

Photo sources: DatingAdvice.SeniorYourFutureDating.co.uk, HuffingtonPost.com, Mashable.com, DIYHealth.com, The-GrannyDiaries.tumblr.com.

About The Author

John Melfi is in an open relationship with his wife, Jackie. Together they are the driving force behind some of the most well-known swingers clubs in the world. John and Jackie recently were featured in an ABC News Nightline special report called “Getting ‘Naughty in N’Awlins’: Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention.” They also coach couples on the lifestyle and frequently blog on the topic. Visit www.openlove101.com to sign up for their FREE newsletter and get updates on their videos and articles.