Where to Meet Senior Men
|Sam Stieler • 9/17/12||3 comments|
Figuring out where to meet eligible men is always a problem, and meeting eligible senior men is no exception. Yet, if you follow these tips, you shouldn’t have too many problems meeting plenty of single men who would love to take you out.
Put your family and friends on the case.
Telling your family and your friends that you’re looking to meet men to date is a great way to get a few extra pairs of eyes and ears on the case for you.
Generally speaking, your loved ones will be thrilled that you’re looking for men to date, and they’ll be more than happy to look far and wide for men you might be interested in getting to know better.
Instead of just telling your friends and family to go find you "someone," be as specific as possible with the criteria you’re looking for. Sit down before you talk with them and write out a list of qualities you want your new man to have.
If you want a kind man, write it down. If you want a rich man, put that on your list. Instead of judging your thoughts, just write down every desirable quality you can think of.
Once you’ve exhausted your imagination, take a minute to go over the list and figure out your top five must-have qualities. These are the most important traits you man needs to have, the deal-breakers. If you meet a man who doesn’t have them, don’t consider him as a potential romantic partner.
Once you have your top five must-have qualities list, pass it along to your friends and family and send them out on the hunt!
Putting in personal time and effort to meet men is important, but soliciting a little help won’t hurt.
"Meeting senior men online
certainly has its benefits."
When it comes to your own personal search, the first place you should look is the social organizations you already belong to. If you belong to a church or some other religious organization, then check there.
If you take regular yoga classes, then start noticing if there are any single senior men who attend as well. If you belong to a book club, start paying more attention to the men there to see if any of them match what you’re looking for. A lot of divorced men may also find themselves interacting with their kids in other social settings, like the park or public playgrounds. Don't be intimidated by an divorced man, consider them as a fun weekend father.
If you don’t belong to any social organizations, then you need to join a few. There’s no better way to meet senior men than through exploring your interests.
Not only is it easier to meet men when you’re put in a naturally social situation with them, but you’re more likely to meet men who align with your interests and values through activity groups for seniors.
Sure, most women would rather meet men in person than online, but meeting senior men online certainly has its benefits.
You’ll be able to see what they look like and read about their interests on your own time and your own terms. You’ll be able to message with him extensively and get to know him gradually, transitioning to the phone when you’re ready and meeting in person when you know he’s someone you’d like to go out with.
Online might not have the fairy-tale quality to it that other forms of meeting men carry, but it’s practical, convenient and increasingly popular with senior men looking to meet a great woman just like you.