When it comes to dating a woman, conversation rules the nation. This is because most of the value a woman places on a relationship — romantic or otherwise — is based on her ability to exchange thoughts and ideas with that person.
While love letters and poems are fantastic and very effective (don’t get me wrong, we love them), nothing will ever take the place of hearing you speak the words we long to hear. If you struggle with finding the right words, don’t worry because you’re not alone.
I recognize that most men find difficulty in communicating their feelings, so I’ve made a list for you that promises to reveal that smile you love so much and put a gleam in those eyes you love to gaze into. These, by the way, include words rarely spoken by men, words that may seem humorous and amusing at first.
Nevertheless, if you’ll incorporate these words into your relationship, they will bring your woman true joy and lasting happiness. Plus, they’ll put the va-va-va-voom back into your love life. Check it out:
1. “You’re so beautiful.”
2. “I’m so lucky to have you.”
3. “Thank you.”
4. “You sure look foxy in those jeans/dress/swimsuit.”
5. “You’re right. I’m wrong.”
6. “What would you like to watch, honey?”
7. “Will you forgive me?”
8. “You are so smart and that’s sexy.”
9. “Will you hold my hand?”
10. “I miss you.”
11. The mother of all things women want to hear: “I love you.”
If you’re not speaking enough sweet little nothings in your girlfriend’s ear, pretty soon she will be seeking those affirmations from someone else.
Guys, the reality is that if you are sincere in your desire to show the woman you’re with that you think she’s dynamite, you’re going to have to become fluent in the language of love.