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13 Best Online Dating Sites for Men

Hayley Matthews • 8/17/15 •
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Online dating is no longer considered a “desperate” way to meet women, and the proof is in the fact that 52% of online daters are men and there are more than 2,500 dating sites in the U.S.

And while it’s great that men have so many options (ClownDating.com is a thing… a creepy, creepy thing), how do you choose a site that actually gets you results?

This list of the 13 Best Online Dating Sites for Men is definitely a good place to start!

1. Match

We’ve said it before and we’ll say it again: Match.com is the best online dating site out there. Not only does Match have the highest paid user base of any other dating site, but the gender ratio is also in your favor (51% women to 49% men).

Match.com is a well-known and trusted dating site, having led to more dates, marriages, and relationships than any other site. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★★ 4.9/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 49% | F: 51%*
Popularity 13.5 Million*

The memberships are affordable, matches are delivered to you on a daily basis, you have multiple ways to search for someone special on your own — seriously the list could go on and on.

2. Elite Singles

As you can see from the graph below, Elite Singles’ user base leans slightly more female, but what you should also know is 82% of its user base also holds a bachelor’s, master’s, or doctorate degree. If you’re looking for a partner who is highly education, this could be the site for you.

Elite Singles is the premier dating site for educated professionals. Most members are upper-income with college degrees, and its impressive Fraud Detection system ensures no-nonsense dating. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★★ 4.9/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 43% | F: 57%*
Popularity 290,000*

In terms of Elite Singles’ price, you’re looking at a whooping $0 to create a profile, upload photos, search for and receive matches, and communicate via winks and things like that.

3. eHarmony

If a serious relationship is your long-term goal, eHarmony is a great choice.

Accounting for 4% of U.S. marriages, eHarmony's compatibility-based system and commitment-minded user base are ideal for those seeking a serious relationship. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★ 4.3/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 48% | F: 52%*
Popularity 4.1 Million*

Responsible for 2% of marriages in the U.S. (it’s been said 542 members marry every day), eHarmony uses a personality assessment to find you the best partner possible. Considering there are 52% women compared to 48% men on the site, that shouldn’t be too hard.

4. Zoosk

33 million members, 3.8 million visits/month, 52% women vs 48% men — Zoosk has numbers on its side. But we’re not just going to throw fancy stats at you.

Zoosk's integration with social networks and its popular smartphone app make it one of the fastest-growing dating sites for casual and serious daters. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★★ 4.6/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 48% | F: 52%*
Popularity 3.8 Million*

Zoosk is also really fun to use, and we can’t forget about its Behavioral MatchmakingTM algorithm, which pairs singles with other compatible singles based on on-site behavior and preferences. Don’t like smokers? With this technology, you won’t be matched with them, and so on.

5. OurTime

As the most popular dating site for singles over 50, OurTime really cares about simplifying the online dating process for its users (52% women and 48% men).

OurTime is quickly gaining popularity amongst older singles, featuring an easy profile search and interface. OurTime is exclusively for ages 50+. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★ 4.4/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 48% | F: 52%*
Popularity 1.4 Million*

When you sign up, you’re given step-by-step instructions on how to fill out your profile so you start getting matched quickly, and dating experts are available on-site to offer advice once you do.

6. BlackPeopleMeet

BlackPeopleMeet is the go-to dating site for black and interracial singles, whether they just want a casual date or are looking to get married.

BlackPeopleMeet.com is the largest online dating site for black and biracial daters of all backgrounds, and is used by 1.4 million daters each month. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★ 4.0/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 47% | F: 53%*
Popularity 1.4 Million*

Some cool things about BlackPeopleMeet include “Message Ideas” that help get the conversation going with matches and the option to post audio and video on your profile. The odds are also in your favor in terms of gender ratio: 53% women, 47% men.

7. EliteSingles

If education is a top priority to you when looking for a date or partner, then you might want to give EliteSingles a try, as 67% of members hold a bachelor’s, master’s, or doctorate degree. Not to mention there’s 57% women vs 43% men!

Elite Singles is the premier dating site for educated professionals. Most members are upper-income with college degrees, and its impressive Fraud Detection system ensures no-nonsense dating. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★★ 4.9/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 43% | F: 57%*
Popularity 290,000*

8. SeniorPeopleMeet

For single seniors who are little uncomfortable using the Internet, SeniorPeopleMeet is one of the best options. Making your way through sign-up and the site, in general, is very easy, and you’ll feel safe doing so.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com is the most popular dating site exclusively for those 55 and older. Safe and easy to use, with a free trial to view profiles. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★ 3.6/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 41% | F: 59%*
Popularity 2.4 Million*

SeniorPeopleMeet also has one of the biggest gaps in gender: 59% women in contrast to 41% men.

9. AdultFriendFinder

For some people, life isn’t all about finding “The One” — it’s about finding “The One for Right Now.” If that’s your mentality, AdultFriendFinder is one of our favorites to recommend.

Make no mistake: this site isn't about making friends, it's about short-term "hookups" and affairs only. Note that a basic account costs $14.95/month, but it's well worth it if casual sex is your goal.

Overall Rating ★★★★ 3.5/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 65% | F: 35%*
Popularity 25.5 Million*

More than 40 million sexy singles use AFF, and more than 25.5 million visit the site every month. You’re practically guaranteed to find someone (or someones) who get your engine revving.

10. BeNaughty

Let’s be real: We’re not all looking for Prince Charming (or Princess Charming) to ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after with, and that’s OK. BeNaughty throws some spice into the dating process by focusing its attention on people who are just looking for hookups.

BeNaughty is a popular "hookup" site that drops all the pretenses of dating and just gets down to the nitty-gritty of hooking up. Browse profiles in any town for free. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★ 3.5/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 48% | F: 52%*
Popularity 13.3 Million*

While there may be more men than women on the site, 60% to 40%, that’s hardly going to put a kink (pun intended) into things.

11. LovesFlirt

LovesFlirt is a new dating platform that’s modern, easy to use, and that provides men an opportunity to safely interact with thousands of women, with support features specifically designed to prevent scammers and fraud. Each new member is carefully vetted before an account is approved as well. “For us, your safety comes first,” the LovesFlirt team said. Another perk is that memberships start as low as $15 a month for six months, so you’ll definitely want to take advantage of this deal.

Visit LovesFlirt.com »

12. OkCupid

As the most popular free online dating site, OkCupid.com does really well with college students and working millennials, but the site also has a good amount of users 35 and up. Besides a pretty spot-on algorithm, you can also see who’s looked at your profile, as well as browse anonymously so no one knows you’re cyber stalking them. The general ratio of men to women on OkCupid is 53% men and 47% women, but it’s more like 50/50 if you’re between 24 and 30 and live in a big city like New York.

13. Plenty of Fish

Another free online dating site, PlentyofFish.com is said to be the largest because it has more than 3 million active users on-site every day. You can upgrade your account for about $7-$13 a month for some extra perks, but one of the biggest selling points is PlentyofFish never charges you to message someone. There are 55% men compared to 45% women, but with “50,000 new singles every day,” we think you stand a good chance.

Final Thoughts

There are so many dating sites and apps out there to chose from, but honestly the 13 sites above really do have the best success rates and offer variety no matter what you’re looking for. Happy dating!

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