The Short Version: At a young age, Jordan Gray started studying relationships and read hundreds of informational books about love, sex, and romance. When he was 22, he decided to use his emotional intelligence to help others by becoming a dating and relationship coach. Now, over eight years later, his one-hour coaching sessions are filled with information, support, and guidance for self-motivated daters. He tells his clients like it is, and hundreds of singles and couples have come to Jordan for advice on maintaining loving relationships and finding joy in their personal lives. Additionally, his online video courses and bestselling books cover everything from cute date ideas to mastering sex techniques. Whether you’re reading his relationships blog or talking through dating issues over the phone, Jordan aims to enlighten men and women about the true nature of a fulfilling love life.
At age 20, Jordan Gray emerged from the ashes of a bad breakup determined to become a relationship expert. As a voracious reader in his teens, he’d read hundreds of self-help books on the subjects of love and sex. He described himself as the quintessential wounded teenager seeking to grow his understanding of relationships.
“I felt a compulsive need to figure out relationships in order to not be left abandoned in the future,” he said. “What started from a core wound eventually healed into a healthier path of growth.”
When he graduated from college at age 22, Jordan decided to share what he’d learned with others and become a full-time dating coach. He began advising singles on how to get a date, but soon he wanted to go even further and really transform his clients’ lives in a lasting and positive way. So he became a sex and relationship coach focused on getting to the heart of a person’s relationship and life struggles.
Today, more than eight years later, Jordan is a five-time Amazon bestseller with dating and relationship books of his own. His published works give readers romantic dating tips in a succinct and accessible format. You can read more of Jordan’s sage advice on his blog, which delves into interpersonal emotions. He’s written over 300 motivational articles on building intimacy, accepting love, and healing emotional wounds.
“If you want to shed years of emotional baggage, feel loved and cared for, and become your partner’s ultimate partner, then you probably want to keep reading,” Jordan wrote in a post about deep relationships. “The more you can accommodate your partner, while still be conscious of your own mental and emotional needs, the better.”
One-on-One Coaching For High-Achieving Men & Women
Most of Jordan’s attention and efforts as a relationship expert go toward individual coaching sessions. He has worked with hundreds of driven men and women, many of whom are entrepreneurs or self-employed, between 25 and 50 years old. His clients tend to be high achievers seeking to master love, sex, and relationships.
Jordan’s approach to dating is about taking ownership and embracing the truth about yourself, mistakes and all.
In his one-on-one coaching, Jordan uses cognitive behavioral therapy to alter the mindset of singles and couples at an impasse in their lives. “I take them down the path of most resistance, the path they’re most challenged to face,” he said. “I definitely have a very direct and truthful approach.”
You can book a One-Hour Deep-Dive Coaching Call with Jordan to explore your feelings on a deeper level. In one rigorous session, the relationship expert aims to have a lasting impact on his client’s personal life.
“I aim to work with my clients for one or two sessions because I’m not an enabler who will talk to someone for 28 hours over the course of a month or two,” Jordan explained. “I’m looking to catalyze my clients into actual transformation as efficiently as possible.”
Video Courses to Improve Your Dating, Relationship & Sex Habits
In addition to individual coaching sessions, Jordan Gray conducts three online video courses for daters of all types. Fight Less, Love More teaches daters how to get rid of unnecessary drama in long-term relationships and feel happier in their day-to-day lives. Find Your Ideal Partner challenges singles to stop settling and attract a dream date using effective dating techniques.
Unlike the other two courses, Supercharge Your Sex Life is a gendered product intended for a male audience. Jordan designed this course to teach men about sensual mastery. In five modules, men learn simple exercises to increase their stamina and please their partners in the bedroom.
“Supercharge Your Sex Life is about helping men reconnect with the full spectrum of their sexuality,” Jordan explained. The video course encourages intellectual and shy guys to unleash the beast within and embrace their sexual desires, becoming more capable and attractive lovers in the process.
Successfully Helping Clients Go From Single to Married
Jordan has seen more than 20 of his clients go from frustrated singles to happily married couples. He has a knack for getting at the underlying issues of a problem — whether it’s substance abuse or a string of failed romances — so his clients gain clarity and a deep understanding of how their emotions impact their behavior.
“Within a week… we were even more in love than we had been in the first few months of our relationship. The program was an absolute god send.” — Phil T., a client from Toronto, Ontario
Jordan told us one of his favorite success stories involves a married couple who came to him at a tumultuous time in their relationship. Full of resentment and bitterness, Noah and his wife were considering splitting up. After working with Jordan for two months, they rediscovered their love for one another and decided to have kids.
“My wife and I largely felt comfortable deciding to have our first child together because Jordan helped us patch up the major holes in our communication,” said Noah. “Honestly, I wouldn’t be a father if it weren’t for him.”
Jordan said he’s kept in touch with the couple over the years and watched them flourish as high-functioning parents still very happy in their marriage. “They went from near-divorce to having children,” he said. “I get the most emotional charge from things like that where you see a big turnaround.”
“Jordan helped me work through some of the most difficult emotions I have ever felt. Because of him, I’m now dating the woman of my dreams.” — Dane M., a 32-year-old client from San Diego, CA
Victoria Gibson, a marketing expert and former client of Jordan’s, described his relationship coaching as an “absolute game-changer.” He listened to her fears and frustrations and motivated her to master her personal life as well as her professional life. “As a successful entrepreneur, I want an epic love life, too, and with Jordan’s help, I am creating a solid foundation for a brilliant relationship,” she said.
Jordan’s expert advice crosses borders and positively impacts people all over the world. Robin from Melbourne, Australia, said a one-hour session with the relationship coach healed her on such a fundamental level that she overcame a 30-year addiction.
“To say that Jordan changed my life is an understatement,” Robin said in a testimonial. “He made me see life through a different lens, which, in turn, made me understand myself better, improve my relationships, succeed more in my business, and fill me with a deep happiness.”
Jordan Gray — An Inspiring Ally for Singles & Couples
In the course of his life, Jordan has experienced a personal revolution — from a heartbroken young man to a confident and worldly 30-year-old — and hopes to help others do the same. Years of study and one-on-one conversations have given him unique insight into the dating world. Now, as a sex and relationship coach, he inspires singles and couples to develop more fulfilling relationships by mastering their own emotions and personal truths.
Jordan empowers daters to overcome their insecurities, confront their fears, and stop settling for a mediocre dating life. Through deep coaching sessions and informative video courses, he can quickly put people on a healthier life path.
In the next couple years, Jordan wants to expand his face-to-face consulting services. “Instead of writing online, I want to be offline at retreats and seminars for an international audience,” he told us. The ambitious relationship coach plans to cross borders to bring his expertise to men and women worldwide.
“All I’m concerned with is how do I get people from a place of subtle lies and deception to a place of absolute truth about their lives,” he said. “So that’s what I’m funneling my energy toward.”