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|Sam Stieler • 9/17/12|
Discussions concerning long-distance dating almost always revolve around the potentially negative fallout of these admittedly challenging relationships. Yet long-distance relationships provide just as many benefits as points against.
You simply need to dig a little deeper, and apply an unconventional outlook, to find the bright spots offered by dating from a distance.
What usually happens when you meet a woman you share a powerful, practically instantaneous connection with?
Too many of us go through too many of these relationships too often. The emotional connection you feel with some women is so intense that it’s impossible to develop at a normal, natural and healthy pace when you are able to be in constant contact with each other.
If, however, you and your woman are forced to slow down your relationship’s progression, these incredibly intense relationships have a much higher chance of developing into a connection that lasts.
“Instead of considering distance an
impediment, think of it as an opportunity.”
Whether your relationship is open because you or your woman just met and feel reluctant to immediately commit, or whether you and your woman simply prefer a non monogamous union, a little physical distance creates a great barrier to the sort of jealousy and drama that can sideline an otherwise healthy connection.
By living in different cities, you will both be able to play out the private elements of your dating life without openly comparing your activities with hers and without having to deal with the often immature external drama inherent with hooking up within any shared social circle.
However, remember this: If you’re going to act on the independence your long-distance relationship provides you, make sure you and your woman are on the same page regarding what is and isn’t allowed when it comes to getting involved with others.
Finally, instead of considering distance as a burden to you and your woman enjoying the sexual side of your relationship, think of distance as an opportunity to explore some of the elements of your shared sexuality you wouldn’t otherwise play with if you lived close to each other.
Phone sex, cyber sex (through chat or video), sexting, dirty emails, sexy pictures, and naughty “care packages” offer just a few avenues for exploring the less tangible, but no less powerful, elements of your sex life.
And if you do end up living closer to your woman, you better believe all the wonderful skills you honed during your previous time apart will help you keep you connecting in a more expansive and imaginative manner than you ever would if you didn’t have such helpful limitations forcing you to delve deeper.