The Short Version: Katia Loisel, an internationally acclaimed expert on dating and relationships, helps singles master the art of body language and flirt more effectively on a date. Over the years, Katia has designed and conducted hundreds of keynote speeches, workshops, and seminars to impart her relationship insights to over 10,000 people worldwide. She also works one on one with singles who are having dating difficulties and provides specific feedback about the nonverbal cues that can make or break an emotional connection. Furthermore, through her global media outlet, The Love Destination TV, Katia reaches millions of women through video content and words of encouragement and empowerment. Katia teaches daters about body language to give them the skills to make an attractive first impression and feel more at ease in the dating scene.
Growing up in Australia, Katia Loisel felt insecure in most social situations. She considered herself a shy extrovert, often going out to mingle with people but unable to overcome her own doubts enough to build strong relationships. In her early 20s, someone told her she was coming across as standoffish and snobby. People were reading her body language as aloof, which kept them at a distance.
For Katia, this was an important revelation. She hadn’t realized how much her own behavior was influencing how others treated her. “It affected everything, every single relationship, everything I touched,” she said. “I made a decision to change my life by changing my body language.”
Katia began by simply smiling more often. And she found people often smiled back. Her confidence grew as people changed how they viewed her and therefore how they behaved toward her. She found it easier to make eye contact, start conversations, and build relationships.
Inspired by the positive feedback she received, and after studying everything she could get her hands on, Katia wanted to empower others to connect, become more conscious of nonverbal signals, and improve their love lives in the process. She conducted a five-year global study on dating and mating patterns before co-authoring “How to Get the Man/Woman You Want,” 400-page book which made thoughtful conclusions about dating.
In 2009, Katia decided to share her insights on social success with singles worldwide and launched an instructive “How To” series on YouTube. Her cheeky videos focused on central dating topics and generated over 12 million views in six months.
Katia’s story and its lessons resonated with daters looking to improve their love lives and make stronger first impressions. Today, she conducts impactful one-on-one coaching, workshops, and seminars to speak to tens of thousands of women around the world. Her central message is that dating success starts with examining and adjusting your own behavior. Going into a date with a positive attitude can make all the difference in the world.
“It’s amazing how quickly life can change,” Katia said. “People mirror back what we’re sending out, so your attitude can affect your every relationship.”
How to Send the Right Signals, Flirt Effectively & Get a Date
On a first date, many singles are a bundle of nerves. Sometimes they get so caught up in their heads about what to do, what to say, and how to act that they fail to make an authentic connection. Worse still, flopping on a date can further harm their confidence and make them even more nervous the next time round. It’s a vicious cycle that Katia’s dating coaching aims to end once and for all.
In her speeches, Katia focuses on how to make a strong first impression and explains the nonverbal communications that can slip people up. Her deep understanding of body language has made her a much-sought-after dating expert for seminars, conference panels, and one-on-one coaching sessions. She has been interviewed over 1,000 times by top media outlets, including “The Morning Show,” “The Daily Edition,” and ABC.
Katia explains the nuances of body language, flirtation, and relationships in clear terms, backed by years of research and study. She runs a free Body Language of Flirting Bootcamp for anyone seeking hands-on help and professional-grade online resources in the love department.
“On a date, you’re often trying to show the ideal version of yourself,” she said. “But fear can get in the way, and sometimes what you want to communicate isn’t coming across, and you end up repelling rather than attracting your date. I give women feedback on the art of connection and how to understand and decipher body language so they can overcome those first date nerves and create meaningful relationships.”
Throughout her career, Katia has worked with over 10,000 people and given over a hundred keynote speeches about body language and dating. She can expertly dissect a person’s body language and nonverbal cues, and she provides helpful feedback to daters wondering what’s going wrong in their love affairs.
Her vivacious personality gives people confidence in her authority as a body language and relationship expert. According to her website, “Katia’s fun, interactive presentations are tailored to your needs and will delight, motivate, and educate.”
Educational Entertainment: 18 TV Shows Developed For Women
Katia seeks to grow her audience and share her spot-on dating advice through women-focused media outlets. She produces educational entertainment shows to draw people to her positive message. “I want to spread a little kindness in the world,” she said. “And help people find and keep love.”
Currently, this acclaimed dating expert is developing 18 television shows for the Love Destination TV, her multi-platform global media network.
Katia founded the love-focused media network to “conquer loneliness and disconnection” by speaking about subjects close to the hearts of women everywhere. It’s a compassionate outlet dedicated to spreading love and positivity. In fact, 15% of all Love Destination profits go toward charities.
“Our mission is to spread love and inspire and empower women, with content that makes you feel good about love and life,” Katia said. “The shows, such as ‘French Kiss: The Art and Science of Kissing,’ ‘Eat in Love,’ ‘Random Acts of Kindness,’ and ‘Click: How to Find Love Online,’ are about making it really easy for people to connect and embrace those connections, no matter who they are or what stage of love and life they’re in.”
Sending Out Words of Wisdom to Empower Singles
Many have praised Katia’s motivational speaking style. Oftentimes, she injects a bit of light humor into her speeches and positions herself as a down-to-earth expert in emotional subjects. Her positive attitude, personal story, and spot-on analysis encourage people to take steps to change their lives.
She told us the story of how she helped one introverted research scientist come out of his shell and find love. He was going to a barbecue hosted by a friend and thought he would stick out because he was older than everyone there. Katia challenged the single man to start a conversation with the oldest and the youngest person at the party.
The dating expert told him not to worry about being cool or getting a date, but simply to give his attention to the outsiders of the group. He ended up having an amazing conversation with a young woman at the party. They dated and are now happily married.
He’s not the only one thankful for Katia’s dating advice. “Katia is both professional and effervescent with so much energy, it is contagious!” gushed Jacqui Van Buuren in a testimonial. “She has great content, is always upbeat and positive, and [is] a real asset.”
“Your expertise is hugely appreciated, Katia – your words of wisdom are invaluable.” – Mille Chandler, Dolly
Katia is a great at driving her point home with her audience and giving them helpful insights to apply to their social lives. “Your comments were spot on the mark – exactly what we wanted!” wrote Catherine Milford, the Deputy Editor of Woman’s Day.
“What great energy,” commented Erin, of “30 Days of Health and Wellbeing,” about Katia’s workshop. “The participants were absolutely captivated.”
Katia Loisel: A Bubbly Personality With a Serious Mission
Decades ago, Katia shied away from the spotlight and cringed at her own social awkwardness. Now, she feels at ease in front of hundreds of eyes and shares her tricks for becoming a more confident, accessible, and date-worthy person. Her body language expertise gives singles the tools to flirt more effectively and communicate who they are without having to say a word.
Through her workshops, seminars, speaking events, and media outlet, Katia sends an empowering message for daters seeking to turn their love lives around. Her positive encouragement and personal experiences inspire people to follow her lead and take control of how they’re perceived in social situations, including on dates.
“At the end of the day, most people want to be loved, but some feel unworthy or like there’s something wrong with them,” she said. “My purpose is to inspire women to know they are enough.”