How Can I Tell if My Boyfriend is Cheating?

September 28, 2012
How Can I Tell if My Boyfriend is Cheating?

If you have to ask that question, then you’re probably not going to like the answer. I truly feel a woman knows when her mate isn’t being faithful — it’s called gut instinct and it should not be ignored. Ask yourself the following:

  • Has he been acting weird lately?
  • Has he been having a hard time communicating?
  • Is he less intimate even when you initiate?
  • When you have a conversation about the “new” him, does he get defensive?
  • Are there unexplained charges on his credit card?
  • Is he secretive about phone calls?
  • Does he seem on edge or in another world?

Like I said, women need to trust their gut. If you honestly feel that he’s cheating on you, then you are most likely right. Just do yourself a favor, when you find yourself hacking into his email, borrowing a friend’s car to track down his nightly activities or examining his dirty laundry for signs of wrongdoing, then it’s time to confront him.

Kara Pound is an award-winning journalist based in St. Augustine, Fla. She holds a Bachelor of Science in Journalism from Flagler College. Her work has been published in INKED, Natural Awakenings, Design Aglow, Memphis Flyer, Jacksonville Magazine, E/Environmental Magazine and dozens more. Check out some of Kara's work at karapound.com. Connect with her on Google+.

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1 Response

    I’ve been with this man for 3 years and he got this new job and now he is acting wired and he won’t touch me he makes shure he take a shower shaves and cut his Neal’s before he goes to work. And today I fined this friend reqauset from some 25 year old that he hied so I couldn’t see it. He never was like this and if I say something about it he says I’m just trying to start shit and fight and I just won’t to know the truth. What do you think is going on

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