I Have a Crush On a Male Friend. What Should I Do?

Gina Stewart Gina Stewart • 9/25/14

Reader Question:

I am a 34-year-old woman who has a serious crush on a male friend of mine. About two years ago we tried to date, but I wasn’t ready.

I do know he is dating someone right now, but it’s not working out. He has been calling me asking for advice on how to get out of this relationship without hurting her. Prior to him reaching out for advice, he has been on my mind.

What should I do?

-Kady (Louisiana)

Gina Stewart’s Answer:

Be honest and tell the man how you feel. He’s asking you advice on how to end things with someone else? He’s fishing to gauge your interest in him because he is still interested in you.

Second chances are a special gift. If you’re really ready for him, don’t waste it.

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