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|Dr. Wendy Walsh • 9/25/14|
When Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg added the relationship status to the personal profiles, he probably didn’t envision the cultural convention he was laying the foundation for.
Today, that pesky Facebook relationship status, the one that announces to the world you are single, in a relationship, married or in a situation too complicated for words, has become something for people to obsess about.
The truth is many people fall into categories somewhere in between single and in a relationship.
If you struggle with how to complete your Facebook status, here’s a cheat sheet with some friendly guidance.
This status signals to the world you are not married, not living with anyone and not in a committed sexual relationship.
Be aware that if you use this status, your private message box will be swamped with friends of friends who think Facebook’s primary function is that of a dating site.
You might also anger anyone who still thinks he is your boyfriend.
This status is best reserved for people who are married or living with a romantic partner. It should also be used if one is in an exclusive sexual relationship with someone.
Please note: Some people who are in multiple sexual relationships use this status when they want one of the partners to believe they are the only one.
This status should not be used if you have been dating someone and have not had a clear conversation about changing your status. Both parties should agree about your status.
“The worst part of this status is
it fails to explain all the stages.”
The best part about this status is it can be linked to the profile of the actual person you are married to, showcasing to the world (at least online) you are a unified front and privy to each other’s social networks.
The worst part of this status is it fails to explain all the stages between the alter and alimony.
Some couples are legally married but ensconced in separate bedrooms for financial reasons or until the divorce papers come through.
Others are happily “undivorced,” living in separate homes and leading separate lives for years without dividing those precious assets. Others are divorced but keep up appearances for the kids, maintaining the illusion of a happy family.
For these people and others, the category of “It’s Complicated” becomes important.
This is the category for the rest of us. It always involves a story that is best told verbally when someone asks about it. In this catch-all category, you will find:
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