19 yo dating 14 yo. I need advice

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19 yo dating 14 yo. I need advice

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    OpenMan1997
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    December 9, 2016 at 11:20 am #119577
    19 yo dating 14 yo. I need advice

    I met this girl online. She is pretty sweet, kindhearted. She wanted me to be her boyfriend and i basically said it was okay, but i made it extremely clear that i dont want any sexual relations with her because i would be in some deep shit. Im a pretty open-minded person, i believe in love no matter where you find it. Though the age thing is bugging me a little bit. Im just feeling anxious about the whole situation and im not sure how i should go/feel about this.

    She is very forward with her sexual needs, i never gave in though(for obvious reasons). I keep telling her stuff like “man i dont wana go to jail” whenever the subject arises. I dont even mind waiting for sex, i mean it will also help me know her on a more emotional level. I have no problem keeping it in my pants, but i feel like she wants me so bad i wonder if she would break up with me cuz im not putting out.

    Like holy shit has she never heard of Age of Consent? I live in california so i cant do anything until (cont.)


    OpenMan1997
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    December 9, 2016 at 11:21 am #119578

    (cont.) she is a legal adult, which im alright with.

    Part of me thinks she is a catfish, but thats just me i have a hard time trusting people sometimes.

    So i guess my question as a whole is: Should i continue to pursue this relationship in hopes that she is the one and we get married like 8+ years from now?…Do i just stay friends and just tell her it is because of the age gap?…Catfish?…Or do i just completely cut her out of my life? which honestly that is my last choice

    I just need some outside opinions because i am starting to fall for her and this is really weird for me. I dont date very much i only tried it a few times before and all i have really done is kissing.


    RomanSenator
    Participant
    December 10, 2016 at 12:09 am #119681

    that’s disgusting. your a degenerate pedophile.


    OpenMan1997
    Participant
    December 12, 2016 at 9:20 am #119682

    Hey, thats your opinion.