21 year old dating 40 yr old man.. Real future or just enjoy it for now?

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21 year old dating 40 yr old man.. Real future or just enjoy it for now?

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    overthinker
    overthinker
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    July 30, 2015 at 2:52 pm #83444
    21 year old dating 40 yr old man.. Real future or just enjoy it for now?

    Before you tell me everything that’s wrong with it hear me out. I am 21 years old and he recently just turned 40. We met randomly at a coffee shop and started talking. I didn’t know his age and he didn’t know mine. During our first date the topic of age came up, I was shocked that he was turning 40. I thought he was 32. He has been divorced for 5 years and has a 7 year old son. I’m not sure what will happen since he travels a lot for work and I am going into my junior year of college. My biggest concern is the perceptions of others because I know he will get the most judgment. I really enjoy the admiration he shows and the support as well as the stability he brings to my life. I think for him what he enjoys most is the positive outlook I bring and the motivation I give him to pursue different things. I like dating older because I like more substance than college guys offer. Could there be a future even with such different lifestyles or should I just enjoy it for now?


    lisa1106
    Participant
    July 30, 2015 at 10:13 pm #83448

    I REALLY don’t think he’s going to get “the most judgment” he’s getting high-fives all around and free drinks from his buddies. And sex from you. Good luck, gold-digger


    tipudas
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    July 31, 2015 at 1:27 am #83449

    Age doesn’t matter.


    alexadating3229
    Participant
    August 4, 2015 at 2:13 pm #83559

    wow, someone needs to chill, lisa1106! I suppose that if you really like him, just ask where he sees this going. If he says it’s just a fling, decide if that’s what you want or not. hope that helps!


    saurav7757
    Participant
    August 4, 2015 at 3:44 pm #83568

    really nice one


    vrj
    Participant
    August 10, 2015 at 11:43 am #83826

    sometime being desperate

    uttom777
    uttom777
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    August 10, 2015 at 9:51 pm #83842

    Hi I think you feel a great depression. No thanks. It is not problem If you want to make a short time relation. Because age 40 does not effect on sex, Moreover it is the perfect time for expert sex. I think you certainly build your relationship.