3 month rule


3 month rule

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    February 18, 2016 at 7:11 pm #93910
    3 month rule

    I’ve been seeing this girl for almost 3 months now, and things are great. There is a good connection between us and we just seem to go well together. We have not really talked about what we are, but it goes unsaid that we are exclusive. We’ve kissed and gone on date, I’ve spent multiple nights at her house. The problem lies in getting to the next level, if you know what I mean. Every time I try to make an advance she shuts me down and wont tell me why at all!! She originally told me she wanted to go slow, but I kinda threw that out when she gave me head, at that point to me we aren’t going slow anymore. Just last night after 2 weeks of me not trying anything she still wouldn’t let things progress. We hang out 2 to 3 times a week and have absolutely no problems. Any ideas on what could be keeping her from going to that next step?

    All answers are much appreciated

    February 18, 2016 at 7:30 pm #93911

    Some girls are protective of “that”. They’re willing to do other things but not take it all the way home. Don’t pressure her 🙂 try to be patient and create a dialogue about it — you deserve an explanation if everything else in on the table already. Good luck!