4 years, no sex life, will it ever be the same?

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4 years, no sex life, will it ever be the same?

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    Waxwing
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    June 6, 2016 at 8:57 pm #102277
    4 years, no sex life, will it ever be the same?

    I have been seeing my current boyfriend since I was 19 and we met in college. At first, I saw him just as a friend but then it gradually became romantic after I broke up with my emotionally unstable boyfriend with a severe drug problem. I was his first but he was far from mine. 2 years later he was my best friend but I could only have sex with him if I was drunk or high. Both of us had started to gain weight and we pretty much lived on pizza. At three years we were both 50 pounds overweight he moved away while I stayed at school to pursue a higher degree. While he was gone I lost weight and stopped drinking. I am working very hard to stay healthy but he is still set in his old ways and living with his parents again. When I see him I can’t bear the thought of touching him even for a moment. He is still my best friend and I love him but I don’t think I can live this way. It is almost like he is my brother. Does anyone think I can be sexually attracted to him again?

    • This topic was modified 1 year, 6 months ago by  Waxwing.
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    lilyvalley
    Participant
    June 6, 2016 at 11:45 pm #102287

    is this a joke. Get a life!


    Waxwing
    Participant
    June 7, 2016 at 1:06 am #102290

    Nice advice from someone who has been asking whether or not a guy is interested for the last 4 months or more! This just in: he isn’t! Sorry I asked a question about a REAL relationship.


    shingomez
    Participant
    June 7, 2016 at 8:24 am #102301

    seriously! now he is like a brother to you. just because he has gained weight and other thing dont change relations drastically. stop and move on.