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L PParticipantDecember 15, 2016 at 5:18 pm #120355
This probably isn’t worth posting as anything is possible and nobody could know the answer. Its not like I did anything stupid and need to find out whether it was appropriate but I’m board so here goes….
I’ve been chatting to a girl for a couple of weeks; we’ve spoke on the phone though mostly by text. Now shes been open to meeting from the start and last week i suggested we meet up, which she seemed to jump at. After a few exchanges on when would be a good time to meet she she said we could meet sooner if I was free in the week. To which I basically replied: “Anytime mid week; Tues, Weds or Thurs is good, its up to you.. do you drive?” She read this on the same day and nether text back; that was like five days ago.
All I can imagine is A) She thinks I wanted her to drive me and thought “fuck that waste man” lol B) Shes had an accident while reading my message… 🙁 or C) She found a man!
Pealee LewParticipantDecember 16, 2016 at 8:24 am #120374
It seems to me as though she may feel its too soon to meet. You’ve been chatting for weeks but have you guts established “rapport”? Does she consider you a friend? Make sure she feels safe and comfortable enough to hang with you. PS. Be just a little indifferent to keep her attention
blueonblueParticipantDecember 16, 2016 at 1:17 pm #120438
If she was open to meeting you, should could just be busy at the moment. If she has conversed with you for awhile, maybe she needs a second to think about it. I wouldn’t worry about it. If she really likes you, then she should have the courtesy to reply to you.
HumanistParticipantDecember 16, 2016 at 10:21 pm #120479
I used to use online dating quite a bit in the past, but not any more.
There are a number of reasons why I don’t use online dating now, totally unrelated to the issue you raised, but this scenario happened to me twice. While I cannot say for certain, I lean towards it being either one of two things:
She’s just busy.
She’s possibly interested in/met someone else.
By all means, I could be totally wrong, and not meaning to discourage you, but it seems to be one of the two scenarios above.
I would try calling, or send a text asking her to call you, but do not go into detail in your text – just ask her to call (politely). If you get no reply within about 2 days, or she keeps texting to ask what you want, but won’t call….I’d look elsewhere.
CatFaceGuyParticipantDecember 17, 2016 at 1:52 am #120484
These things can be very dissappinting, but in the end there are two sides to every conversation. The only thing to do really is to leave a message and hope she calls you back. Best of luck 🙂
L PParticipantDecember 19, 2016 at 9:02 am #120478
You got it right blueonblue she was just bit busy and didn’t realize; she wants to get together after the weekend. Cheers
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