Advice for having wing woman and not looking like a partner

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Advice for having wing woman and not looking like a partner

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    gucci
    gucci
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    April 15, 2016 at 12:14 pm #97916
    Advice for having wing woman and not looking like a partner

    Hey everyone so I need some help, I just recently got out of a two year relationship and it was funny because right out of the gate I met a woman and I was completely open and honest with my situation and she wanted a friends with benefits relationship which is great! Fit into what I needed right away. I’m new to my city and I made friends with a few of her gfs also but the three of them all know my situation with her so life is great. They also are open to me finding a long term relationship . My question is this some times I go to clubs and bars with the other two who are both beautiful and attractive but out of respect for the one I keep it strictly as friends, but I get the feeling sometimes I’m missing out because of the chance other women think I’m perhaps with one in the group…how do I utilize a wing woman who’s game for this situation….it’s such a great set up right now for everyone involved that I’m now seeking outside advice lol

    April 17, 2016 at 12:45 pm #97951

    You really can’t. If you’re hanging out with 2 or 3 attractive women at a club, NO GIRL is going to want to approach. Not only because you could perhaps be dating one of them or all 3, but for the sheer fact that you look like a player and you will be surrounded by girls all the time. An eligible girl or even a hookup girl doesn’t want to deal with that. If you want to pick up chicks get yourself 2 or 3 other hot guy friends and take them out with you. Girls sees a group of cute guys, they flock to them. Trust me, I’ve been one of them. I know how this works


    Claire84
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    May 2, 2016 at 11:37 am #99438

    You must go out with other guys otherwise people with think this woman is your partner. She sounds like she wants to be with you if she doesn’t want you going out without her.

    gucci
    gucci
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    May 2, 2016 at 11:46 am #99441

    She knows I want kids eventually and a real relationship, we are just having fun and fulfilling our intimacy needs I guess and we both have a physical attractions so we thought why not enjoy sex together..I’m very new to my city and hate going out alone but from what I gather I might have to just step up and to it rather than having with attractive women in the clubs…I just figured a wing woman would have been a positive thing for me…gues not lol…I never thought as it made me look like a player I thought it showed that I was an awesome guy who had great girl friends but I guess not! ….so I have to ditch the Fwb and keep it strictly on the side?