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    Anonymous
    January 15, 2015 at 4:47 pm #70750
    Advice from a Man

    I have been with him for 8 years and we have lived together for 2 years.. When I bring up marriage he shuns the topic like I’m his mom trying to have “the sex talk” He says “yes I want to marry you and yes I will ask you.” But it will be 9 years in August.. we live in a nice apartment in Beverly Hills both have good jobs.. I am not pressuring him to have kids.. I just want the commitment.. But we are rarely intimate anymore.. Are we just in a slump or is it over? I love him and don’t want anyone else.. But he doesn’t include me in things like work events.. or dinners.. I feel left out.. I tried to express this to him and he says “you don’t get it.” So I asked him to make me understand..

    He wouldn’t BUT I do get it. It’s business but it’s ok for his bosses husband to attend these dinners.. I have anxiety and knots in my stomach feeling unwanted.

    I am a Sagittarius and I am a natural born adventure seeker.. he won’t do ANYTHING with me. No travel, no fun activities. It’s like a chore


    funky
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    January 15, 2015 at 6:13 pm #70833

    is there any way you can get someone else to ask him about it covertly?


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    The_ScarletClaw
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    January 21, 2015 at 1:18 am #71338

    From what I can tell, it seems like he’s just not interested in you anymore. You say y’all are rarely intimate. Perhaps one night, try to get intimate with him and show him on what he’s missing out since he isn’t interested. Make the first move. Be adventurous.