Advice on a girl


Advice on a girl

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    November 16, 2017 at 5:05 pm #156695
    Advice on a girl

    I’m a 22 year old guy. I’ve been talking to some old friends and most of us haven’t seen each other in 8-10 year (since we moved up to high school). We organised a reunion for tomorrow night (there’s 5 of us) but all but 1 girl, who’s single, has cancelled. I thought sod it and asked her if she wanted to go out just the 2 of us and she said yes! So we are going for a few drinks after not seeing each other for years!

    Now I think she’s pretty cute and we’ve been a little flirty over Facebook messagenger (which she didn’t pick up on straight away). We might not even get on after so long without talking, but I have 2 questions:

    Is it basically a date or not?
    If we do get on do I make a move on her or should I focus on rebuilding a ‘friendship’ at first and then ask her out again?

    November 16, 2017 at 5:26 pm #156712

    nothing to lose, just ask her dude

    November 17, 2017 at 12:19 am #156732

    I’d say it’s a date, and see what comes naturally.

    November 17, 2017 at 4:44 pm #156857

    I think play it by ear, if she’s into you, keep the evening going or ask her our for next time.

    November 20, 2017 at 8:49 am #156890

    It sounds like a date to me, not that i’d know.

    November 21, 2017 at 10:53 am #157078

    Seems like a date, but maybe just start casual and then ask (maybe in a cute way? 😉 ) if she considers this a date, and if so, if she’d want to keep going.