After 3 months of dating, can I initiate dates?

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After 3 months of dating, can I initiate dates?

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    Kosm
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    May 25, 2017 at 12:21 pm #137620
    After 3 months of dating, can I initiate dates?

    Been dating a guy for 3 months. I reallllly like him. Things appear to be going in the right direction. We see each other 1 to 2 times a week. We don’t always communicate daily but I think that’s just how he is. Anyways, I initiated asking him to my place this week and he came over and it was great. He’s talked about me meeting his friends and family. Well, I would like him to meet mine too. Tomorrow, my best friend is having a party and I think it’s the perfect opportunity to invite him but is it ok for me to do this? I always hear that the man should initiate dates, but when you’re three months in, does that still apply?


    tsmit153
    Participant
    May 25, 2017 at 2:59 pm #137638

    It is perfectly okay for you to ask him. In this day and age it is more common for woman to initiate the relationship. Being three months in you probably have a feel for how the relationship is and it’s ok to ask him to do things with you


    Kosm
    Participant
    May 25, 2017 at 3:34 pm #137639

    Yea I just don’t want to do it too much because I just did it this week. I’m just so confused about what’s ok and what’s not ok. This whole dating thing feels like a game of Jenga.

    lovie4you
    lovie4you
    Participant
    May 25, 2017 at 11:12 pm #137652

    You are so funny, I say yes you can do or go where you want if he cares about you, he would just do it to be with you. You should have nothing to worry about. good luck and have fun


    Kosm
    Participant
    May 25, 2017 at 11:54 pm #137653

    Lol thanks I did ask and unfortunately he can’t make it but I’m glad I asked. He responded well 🙂
    Fingers crossed that this keeps going good!

    justacrusher
    justacrusher
    Participant
    May 26, 2017 at 1:41 pm #137703

    I hope that everything is fine forever ❤️


    Jessica523
    Participant
    May 28, 2017 at 5:07 pm #137797

    Yes, definitely ok to initiate dates after you’ve been dating a few months. I’d say first few the guy should initiate but after that, all is fair!


    caldude
    Participant
    May 29, 2017 at 3:29 am #137814

    You should feel free to do so after even a month of dating. This shows him not only that you enjoy his company but are also interested in moving the relationship forward.


    Kosm
    Participant
    May 29, 2017 at 10:21 am #137828

    Wow I thought you guys would say no! I’m glad to hear this. I have noticed when I ask him, he seems excited. I was just confused because some days I don’t hear from him unless I initiate contact. I guess it’s time for me to chill out and stop worrying.