May 25, 2017 at 12:21 pm #137620
Been dating a guy for 3 months. I reallllly like him. Things appear to be going in the right direction. We see each other 1 to 2 times a week. We don’t always communicate daily but I think that’s just how he is. Anyways, I initiated asking him to my place this week and he came over and it was great. He’s talked about me meeting his friends and family. Well, I would like him to meet mine too. Tomorrow, my best friend is having a party and I think it’s the perfect opportunity to invite him but is it ok for me to do this? I always hear that the man should initiate dates, but when you’re three months in, does that still apply?
tsmit153ParticipantMay 25, 2017 at 2:59 pm #137638
It is perfectly okay for you to ask him. In this day and age it is more common for woman to initiate the relationship. Being three months in you probably have a feel for how the relationship is and it’s ok to ask him to do things with youMay 25, 2017 at 3:34 pm #137639
Yea I just don’t want to do it too much because I just did it this week. I’m just so confused about what’s ok and what’s not ok. This whole dating thing feels like a game of Jenga.
lovie4youParticipantMay 25, 2017 at 11:12 pm #137652
You are so funny, I say yes you can do or go where you want if he cares about you, he would just do it to be with you. You should have nothing to worry about. good luck and have funMay 25, 2017 at 11:54 pm #137653
Lol thanks I did ask and unfortunately he can’t make it but I’m glad I asked. He responded well 🙂
Fingers crossed that this keeps going good!
Jessica523ParticipantMay 28, 2017 at 5:07 pm #137797
Yes, definitely ok to initiate dates after you’ve been dating a few months. I’d say first few the guy should initiate but after that, all is fair!
caldudeParticipantMay 29, 2017 at 3:29 am #137814
You should feel free to do so after even a month of dating. This shows him not only that you enjoy his company but are also interested in moving the relationship forward.May 29, 2017 at 10:21 am #137828
Wow I thought you guys would say no! I’m glad to hear this. I have noticed when I ask him, he seems excited. I was just confused because some days I don’t hear from him unless I initiate contact. I guess it’s time for me to chill out and stop worrying.
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