Am I an Emotionally Unavailable Female?

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Am I an Emotionally Unavailable Female?

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    bootyboot
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    January 13, 2015 at 9:10 pm #70532
    Am I an Emotionally Unavailable Female?

    Am I emotionally unavailable?
    31 yr old female, never had a serious relationship. I can’t make anything work out in my dating life. Had lots of casual relationships, the longest lasting 9 months. Never has a man said they loved me or vice versa. Always some new guy in my life, and then it either ends horribly or fizzles. Then the pattern repeats. Often a guy I’m not that into will pursue me hard and then I sleep with him because I don’t care. When they start to lose interest, I start chasing them as they’ve suddenly become more interesting to me. Then it turns into a half-relationship for a few days/weeks/months until he pulls away so then I always end it verbally. Lately I just go for the ones that were half-interested from the start. Still (just) friends with a bunch of them and said I’m cool to be around, just never as gf material. I’m so over being this way but can’t seem to change the pattern! Thoughts?