Am I being friend zoned or is she interested?


Am I being friend zoned or is she interested?

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    April 26, 2015 at 10:39 pm #77921
    Am I being friend zoned or is she interested?

    I met this girl i’m kind of interested in at my new job. We quickly became friendly, took breaks together one on one, she even said once she wish could talk to me more rather than go back to work. I ended asking for her number and texted her a few times, she would always answered within minutes asking questions to keep the conversation rolling. The other day she told me she had to quit the job because she needed to travel out of state to see her family for a month. Not sure whether she likes me as a friend or potentially more I texted her “It was fun working with you! “. She replied “I hope to see you again “. I said “Let’s go for coffee sometime when you are back” I made a point to use the “sometime” in order to avoid sounding clingy. She answered “Yep we should!! I will keep you updated :3”
    Being through text it can be a little confusing, do you think she could be interested, or does she sound like she was just being polite?

    April 28, 2015 at 7:31 pm #77965

    I think it’s hard to know exactly what she is really thinking in mind. As long as you did your best step forward there is nothing else can be done. She will get back to you if she is interested, since you already gave her chance to get together so the choice now is on her.

    April 28, 2015 at 9:21 pm #77970

    I agree with the other post. I feel like only time can tell at this point. You will have to see if she gets back to you. I think your question “if you’re being friend zoned or is she interested” .. you didn’t really say much, but from what I’ve read.. it seems like you guys didn’t hang OUT of work so it’s hard to tell if you’re being friend-zoned or not.

    April 29, 2015 at 2:44 pm #78051

    Yep, just go for it and see what happens. The ball is in her court

    April 29, 2015 at 5:34 pm #78097

    since she said yes then i think she is interested don’t let it go give it a try

    May 1, 2015 at 8:33 pm #78326

    Good luck when she gets back.

    May 2, 2015 at 5:50 pm #78336

    Sounds like she is interested. She’s away so you need to be patient until she returns. Ask her to talk on the phone sometime while she is away, you’ll get a sense if she’s interested if she’s willing to skype or facetime you.

    May 3, 2015 at 7:09 am #78342

    I definitely think it’s possible. At the very least she seems genuinely interested in a friendship, so no harm would come from trying to feel things out. Good luck!

    May 3, 2015 at 12:46 pm #78345

    If she still wants to be friends with you than she might come to you when shes had a bad breakup and even might consider you for a relationship.