Am I being paranoid.

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Am I being paranoid.

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    sam1401
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    October 30, 2014 at 3:17 pm #66853
    Am I being paranoid.

    Hey Guys.
    I met this girl the other week and went on a date with her on Monday. We met at 7:30 and had a drink, watched a movie (first kiss after movieand went to a really nice bar, we really got along. When the bar closed at 2am we were walking around the empty streets for another 3 hours just talking, both felt it was one of the best dates we had. She subtly asked if we will be seeing each other again, I said we would. When she left she gave me this kiss that was amazing, held my face and looked deep into my eyes afterwards.
    However, the past 2 days have been strange. She has seemed quite distant, although she does reply to texts (but not as engaged I’d say). When i asked her if she was ok she said she was busy and really stressed and was meeting a model manager in the evening. She wrote me a text this morning saying she was sorry and was really stressed yesterday. However, we haven’t really been talking much today.

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    sam1401
    Participant
    October 30, 2014 at 3:23 pm #66854

    Then later on I asked her what the plan was for tomorrow? We had arranged to meet up for pre-drinks with two close friends of mine and then go to a club where her friends were. This is how the convo went.
    me-”Just wanted to talk to you about tomorrow.”
    her-”what about tomorrow?”
    ”If its still on and what time you want to meet? :)”
    ”Yes sure, but thing is, my best friend is visiting tar and she wants to go straight to the club with me, If thats ok?”
    ”Of course no problem 🙂 Would have been nice if you guys wanted to have a drink before. But i might come by afterwards.”
    We’ll see how it goes 🙂 just a bunch of friends there too so i really can’t ditch that.. ”

    So taking all the info in consideration (sorry for so much). Do you girls/guys think she is interested and was just busy yesterday… and is the fact that she still wants to go clubbing with me and her friends be there a good thing? 🙂

    Hope you can help. 🙂 Sam


    alpet
    Participant
    November 4, 2014 at 9:17 am #67003

    I’d suggest you move on..


    aretilda
    Participant
    November 5, 2014 at 1:29 pm #67076

    She doesn’t sound interested otherwise she would make the time to spend time with you.