Am I crazy…?

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Am I crazy…?

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    c025575
    Participant
    December 22, 2015 at 11:29 am #90422
    Am I crazy…?

    Good start to the post, right?

    My GF spends a lot of time with her boss 1:1… Driving to/from offsite meetings, lunch occasionally throughout the week, etc. She has brought up a few instances where he’s said some questionable stuff (for example: “my ex gf said i looked really good naked while doing some sort of workout routine) and (what do you like to do for fun? I might take this girl out and wanted your opinion) and (i once got jalepeno on my hands and on my $%$# and it burned for days… I know.. weird). At first she thought he was awkward and weird… She told me these things.. Naturally, I was an idiot and got frustrated with this person ive never met. I’m affraid she doesn’t tell me now for fear of my reaction, but I am convinced he still does creepy things like he consistently makes her come to his office and enforces that she close the door behind her and proceeds to talk work for 5mins and makes things personal during the rest of the conversation.
    Am I overthinking?


    Chase
    Participant
    December 23, 2015 at 1:04 am #90440

    I doubt you are over thinking, but it’s your girlfriends reaction to this behavior that really counts. If she’s not into it, then don’t sweat it.