Am I doing the right thing? – from guys point of view.

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Am I doing the right thing? – from guys point of view.

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    Grace228722
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    November 3, 2017 at 12:51 pm #154982
    Am I doing the right thing? – from guys point of view.

    I am a girl looking for a guys point of view – I dated a guy for about 3 months. We saw each other every day during this time. We were crazy about each other and grew close quick. Things were great and then suddenly things changed. He told me he wasn’t sure his feelings and connection were as strong as they should be. When asked what he wanted to do? He said he did not know. And that was pretty much the last I heard from him. I attempted to reach out to him and few times. But I was met with no response and silence.

    It has been 6 months since our break up. I started working out more as a way to relieve stress and get my mind off of things. I joined the same gym he goes to. When I would run into him at the gym he would obviously avoid me. Acting like he was on the phone all the time and making sharp turns to avoid crossing my path. Even though I never tried talking to him. When I would see him I would look right at and through him like he never existed.


    Grace228722
    Participant
    November 3, 2017 at 12:53 pm #154983

    Just recently I saw him at the gym, this time he did not obviously avoid me. In fact we pulled into the gym at the same time he parked behind me. I got out and I looked back and saw him getting out with a smile on his face. I made quick eye contact with him with no expression on my face then glanced away and walked into the gym. At one point I got on a weight machine, I started my reps and then realized he was using the machine right in front of me. I could tell out of my peripheral when he was looking at me. But I just acted like no one was even there in front of me and avoided eye contact. We moved on to other weight machines, later I am in the back of the gym facing a mirror and I see him walk in front of the gym looking back where I was. We made quick eye contact through the mirror but then I quickly glanced away.


    Grace228722
    Participant
    November 3, 2017 at 2:26 pm #154984

    My question is… am I doing the right thing? I don’t hate him and deep down I miss him. But I feel that he has made it clear by not responding to my early reach outs and then obviously avoiding me at the gym that he doesn’t want to talk to me.

    I don’t know what else to do, unless he makes the first move to talk to me or show me he wants to talk.


    That_Guy
    Participant
    November 4, 2017 at 5:23 pm #155086

    If he doesn’t reach out to you in any way, shape or form he isn’t interested. By obsessing over him and trying to run into him in the gym you are only feeding his ego. Really, you energy is better spent on someone else.

    I’m sorry he dumped you. Plenty of fish….you’ve heard it before…