Am I in the dreaded friend zone?


Am I in the dreaded friend zone?

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    November 28, 2015 at 7:40 pm #89095
    Am I in the dreaded friend zone?

    I am a junior in HS and I have fallen for this really cute freshman.

    Why she might like me:

    She has invited me to hang out a couple times with her and a group of friends

    She smiles and says hey whenever she sees me in the hall

    We hugged several times last night after she does something good (eg: bowling a spare)

    She called me dumb a couple times (probably not good) but she said she was so sorry (sarcastically) and touched my face, grabbed my hand, etc after I said she was mean.

    She laughs a good amount when I’m talking to her

    She asked me to hug her when it was cold and feel her face to see if it felt cold.

    She adds extra letters and smiley faces when texting.

    Why she might not be interested

    She told her friend that her cousin was hot and also said some other guy in the school was cute when I was in her presence

    We don’t text often (maybe because I never texted her first)? She will occasionally text me something like wassssuuppp

    November 29, 2015 at 11:57 am #89099

    Scenario 1: She’s just very friendly and flirtatious. Is she like this to other guys that you know? If so, you might be in the friend zone.
    Scenario 2: If she’s only like this to you, it’s probably because she has some feelings for you.
    Scenario 3: If it’s clear at all that you have a shot, just ask her. It might not work, and could be a little awkward if it doesn’t, but it could work and that would be great.

    November 30, 2015 at 5:03 pm #89137

    give it a try

    December 1, 2015 at 12:45 pm #89190

    I would Imagine you’re not quite friend zoned just yet.
    Some girls that age will try to make you jealous by saying this and that.
    Tread lightly, play your cards right, be confident with yourself regardless of what happens.