am i less of a sexual person/a loser for not having sex until i was 20

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am i less of a sexual person/a loser for not having sex until i was 20

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    MT25
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    May 5, 2016 at 11:32 am #99853
    am i less of a sexual person/a loser for not having sex until i was 20

    okay i didt have sex until i was 20. i was nervous and was somewhat anxious to have sex due to some bad experiences in my past. i meet my girlfriend freshman year of college and she had 5 sexual partners her first year of college all of them were casual. i mean she had one night stands, friends with benefits and a threesome. she took my virginity at 20 during our 2ND year at college. we started to have amazing sex. we would have sex everyday and still do and have amazing sex. but i dont feel like a sexual person compared to her. i was aware of her sexual history as well as in i was the guy who she would confide in after a one night stand. i just feel like such a loser compared to her and i feel very jealous of her that she had sex before me. but what she always tells me is stop focusing on my past sex life and start focusing on our sex life now. i just feel bad because everyone had sex before me and i feel like i missed out on fun teenage sex and i want to experience something more

    sexy2jade
    sexy2jade
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    May 5, 2016 at 6:18 pm #99875

    aw

    Desmonnd
    Desmonnd
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    May 6, 2016 at 12:03 pm #99896

    Lets just say you are a semi-loser or you were a loser but not anymore.
    In general you would do better to start dating as soon as you hit puberty. This is good because while you are trying to get laid you will at least go on a date with many girls, which will teach you about women.
    What you need to do now is prove to her that you are a better lover than anyone she has had before.