Am I ugly?

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Am I ugly?

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    601958234
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    September 9, 2014 at 6:14 pm #61093
    Am I ugly?

    Ok so skipping past all the details, let me start by saying I grew up in a wealthy family. When I was younger I had no issues meeting girls. Now I am completely independent / distanced from my family. Over the past 5 years (I am 24 now) I have been focusing on building up my life with little to no time to meet girls. Now I am trying to meet someone I can connect with and I decided to try some phone dating apps (OKCupid, POF, and tinder). I have had little to no success. This is leading me to believe that physically I am unattractive, which is fine. But if thats the case I need to know so I can change my approach. Dont worry about hurting my feelings, you wont. Please respond with a 1-10 scale rating and any additional comments you want to add. Here are the photos on my dating profile (In the order they are displayed):
    http://i62.tinypic.com/scq3px.jpg
    http://i60.tinypic.com/2hcf2c9.jpg
    http://i58.tinypic.com/2eydtmh.jpg
    http://i62.tinypic.com/t6p3r8.jpg


    AdamS
    Participant
    September 9, 2014 at 7:14 pm #61207

    In my opinion,
    confidence if everything. There’s a recent video on YT where people dressed themselves in fat suits, or acne masks and crap like that but went up to girls, were confident about themselves and managed to get their numbers.
    Your bio is fine, it’s great in fact, however in my honest opinion, you won’t get anywhere with apps that help you with dating.
    Get out there, on the streets, and the results will be much better.


    Brutus777
    Participant
    September 9, 2014 at 7:26 pm #61218

    Well in my opinion, no. It should not matter what your look like. It is all about confidence! Maybe trying having different approaches too. What I would do is go a coffee shop before work, go the gym or the bar after work, to get best results.


    601958234
    Participant
    September 10, 2014 at 8:36 am #61220

    Thanks for the feedback but the reason why I was asking was because on these dating apps where they are quite superficial, my results are definitely low compared to most other people (basing this one conversations I’ve overheard and posts I’ve read online).

    I can’t stand the bar scene. Coffee makes me sick. I do go to the gym (regularly) but when I do I get so focused on my workout I don’t even notice anyone around me. Also between college and my professional career, my time is pretty contained. I am interested in meet girls but I will not stop doing the things that make me happy (outdoor activities and exercising) so I can make time to go places and look for them.


    601958234
    Participant
    September 10, 2014 at 8:36 am #61223

    Thanks for the feedback but the reason why I was asking was because on these dating apps they are quite superficial, my results (1-2 matches per week) are definitely low compared to most other people (basing this one conversations I’ve overheard and posts I’ve read online).

    I can’t stand the bar scene. Coffee makes me sick. I do go to the gym (regularly) but when I do I get so focused on my workout I don’t even notice anyone around me. Also between college and my professional career, my time is pretty contained. I am interested in meet girls but I will not stop doing the things that make me happy (outdoor activities and exercising) so I can make time to go places and look for them.


    Instinct101
    Participant
    September 12, 2014 at 2:58 am #61832

    I haven’t even read your story yet. The answer is no. Not to everyone, but to some. As can be said of us all.


    TheHype
    Participant
    September 12, 2014 at 12:38 pm #61870

    Na dude. theres uglier dudes, just ditch that costume pic. Girls only seem to care for confidence and then looks.


    SashaC
    Participant
    September 12, 2014 at 8:01 pm #61907

    confidence is King! And someone will find you attractive


    Anonymous
    September 13, 2014 at 10:38 am #61910

    It should not matter what you look like.

    September 14, 2014 at 9:21 am #61938
    Reply To: Am I ugly?

    Not ugly imo. Personality is first, then looks.

    kevin8878
    kevin8878
    Participant
    September 15, 2014 at 2:27 am #61964
    Reply To: Am I ugly?

    no you’re average. just need confidence

    DanteDMC
    DanteDMC
    Participant
    September 16, 2014 at 9:47 am #62021
    Reply To: Am I ugly?

    Love yourself. Learn, read books, be an interesting conversationalist, and then you will not be thinking about such nonsense. No, you’re not ugly! And go to the gym, Increase self-esteem

    September 17, 2014 at 7:45 pm #62080
    Reply To: Am I ugly?

    i hate that word

    i hope you realize that ‘ugly’ was invented… it is not a real thing


    ellominero18
    Participant
    September 17, 2014 at 10:23 pm #62084
    Reply To: Am I ugly?

    you are not

    Yung_Benji
    Yung_Benji
    Participant
    September 18, 2014 at 10:56 am #62141
    Reply To: Am I ugly?

    I’m a guy actually, but anyways.

    You look good. I I was a girl, I’d probably wouldn’t reject you ONLY because of how you look. So yeah, you’ve passed this.

    All depends on who you really are now, how you talk, and if you’re an interesting person in total. Also, I believe you should look more classy. It appeals to you.

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