November 17, 2016 at 5:10 pm #117747
Hello, I am in love with this girl who is at a distance. I plan to meet her one day and share my feelings with her. Yesterday, she had a problem which she didn’t want to talk to me about, and I feel very bad for not being able to do anything to make her feel better. Only her closer friends are able to stay at her side when she needs the most and I can’t. I beg of you, please, tell me what to do to make her feel better?
MegParticipantNovember 18, 2016 at 11:54 am #117825
Stop yourself. You sound needy and desperate. Girls don’t want to be with guys like that, in fact, they ran away… The only thing you can do is start living your life, put on your A-game, make yourself feel like your winning at everything you choose to do!! Then you’ll get some confidence and realize that you don’t need someone who doesn’t want you… and then, get to know this girl, get to know little things about her, meet her, talk to her, open up but just a little bit, create safe space- that’s youre only chance to ever get her!
Sorry if I sound harsh, but you should focus on how awesome you are and can be first:)November 18, 2016 at 7:18 pm #117880
This might sound pessimistic, but life is not worth living for me if I cannot make the people I care about feel better. But still, thank you so very much for your advice…I might think about applying it 🙂
shaw116ParticipantNovember 20, 2016 at 6:08 am #117916
sacrifice and go and meet her it will definitely make her feel better
Phil7463ParticipantNovember 20, 2016 at 7:29 am #117921
Damn, the world needs more people like you tbh. Try to just ask her straight up when you get a chance. She’ll see your bravery when you do that, and women usually like men who are willing to take risks for them.
scholts14ParticipantNovember 20, 2016 at 10:20 am #117927
I’ve been in your shoes many many times. Sometimes you can help sometimes they don’t want you to. If they don’t, just keep talking like you usually do and be someone friendly to talk to. It might not help directly solve the problem but just being able to someone they can talk normally to will be a big help for them.November 20, 2016 at 10:49 am #117933
Thank you all for your comments! Phil 7463, I followed your advice and she told me everything; after, we’ve been talking normally like we used to! Thank you and hope I can help you with something as well when you need! 🙂
mh11ParticipantDecember 3, 2016 at 3:31 pm #118975
Nope. You’re not useless. Question is will she be useless to you.
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