Too anxious to do anything…


Too anxious to do anything…

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    May 4, 2017 at 6:45 pm #135462
    Too anxious to do anything…

    I met this guy at an outside of school activity. He was weird, rude, funny, and teased me all the time. He pushed me into a pool (ok, i did the same to him so we’re even), splashed me to get my attention, helped me and listened to me, and I felt comfortable around him. I could be myself, which is kind of hard because I low-key have social anxiety. So when we started going to the same high school, I didn’t really know how to act. So I was extremely awkward. I would wave to him in the halls, but if we were in the same classroom for study hall, I would wave and then ignore him for all of the study hall period. He waved to me really often, probably wondering why tf I was being so quiet and awkward. But at the outside of school activity, we kept talking.

    Then one day, he stopped going to the outside of school activity. And for the past 2 years, I have waved at him in the hallway, but never talked to him. He doesn’t seem to talk to any girls and he still waves back. Now that its been so long, there’s not any way to approach him without being weird. What should I do?

    • This topic was modified 1 year ago by  anonymous.
    May 5, 2017 at 12:48 pm #135527

    if pu’ve been waving for 2 yrs.. just go talk. that wouldn’t be weird after 2 yrs.
    or motion him to come over to you so you can talk if that’s more comfy

    then just talk.

    good luck.

    May 24, 2017 at 7:21 am #137444

    Try your best gl

    May 26, 2017 at 7:02 pm #137769

    I think you should just ignore him

    May 28, 2017 at 1:43 am #137790

    If you want to approach him, do it. It’s not weird. It shows courage, and is super cool ! If he likes you he will be happy, if you don’t try, you will never know.