Asking a college girl out

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Asking a college girl out

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    igotyou
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    June 4, 2016 at 4:56 am #102140
    Asking a college girl out

    Ok so I met a girl at my college orchestra. I’ve been playing violin for 10+ years and she barely started, so I taught her some skills. She eventually told me about trivial facts about her life like her house getting flooded so we talked about those. We randomly met in university center and she invited me to her concert. She also said other people are missing me and she also misses ‘our crew’s leader'(me), so I told her I miss them too.
    I showed up at the concert and she started giving me craps like ‘oh I didn’t expect you to come’, and ‘we replaced you with another person’, and I just smiled at those. Things got super awkward and she even said that to her friend. She said she should have asked her dad to give her a ride and asked me where I live so I told her where. She told me where she lived so I offered her and a guy who’s also in the group if they need a ride back. She was thinking for a while and eventually told me she will take a bus with her friend. I said ok bye and she


    Baccus666
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    June 4, 2016 at 9:15 am #102145

    It cut off your sentence, but I think I get your jist. Basically, with any person you like you just gotta ask. Even if you make it seem casual, “hey, wanna grab some coffee and talk about the changes in the orchestra?” It can be scary but sometimes you just gotta jump.


    igotyou
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    June 6, 2016 at 10:11 am #102141

    asked me if I will take it again next semester. I told her I will and she said see you then. On my way home she sent me a fb friend request so I accepted. I am thinking if I should ask her out to get a coffee after finals or just let it sit there until next semester to make the whole thing less awkward. I guess she turning down my offer to give her a ride back is a rejection and her friend requesting me is a sign that she’s interested? I’ll have to admit that I am a bit confused whether to ask her out one on one to get a coffee.