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At a loss as to what I should do here…

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    GIJoe1986
    GIJoe1986
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    February 18, 2015 at 1:03 pm #73673
    At a loss as to what I should do here…

    Ok so I met this woman online and we hit it off wonderfully as friends. She writes and occasionally I would help her out as a sounding board or how a guy would react in certain situations in her book. Anyhow we started talking about more personal things and I started to help her out with marital problems but then as time went on I noticed we started to feel a certain attraction for one another and for almost a year we talked about how much we cared about one another and that blossomed into a love I feel is real and I am fairly sure was reciprocated equally. Then I my phone broke and due to finacials I wasn’t able to keep my internet so we lost touch for a few months and dated one other person but me and the other girl didn’t work out. While dating I managed to get things straightened out but a few weeks after I broke up with the girlfriend I decided to look up my old online friend and we have talked and fell back into how things were before the loss of communication and I realize( Cont

    GIJoe1986
    GIJoe1986
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    February 18, 2015 at 1:12 pm #73674

    I still feel all the feelings I did before the loss of communication and I am at a loss of what to do. My issues are simple really 1) she is married but not happily and she has been divorced once and on husband #2 but she feels he is turning out like her ex ( BTW both are military) and has made some comments about leaving him not necessarily for me but in general. 2) older than I am…much older. I am 28 and she is in her mid 40’s and has two kids around my age but a few years younger. and 3) I am not put off by the age difference and I am divorced myself and understand how it can be staying trying to make a relationship that is broken work but what really worries me is that maybe things are bleak where she sits being married but I doubt she will feel the same if she divorces him. I am just not sure what to do so any advice?


    quirkygirl30
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    February 23, 2015 at 2:42 pm #73965

    Wow…. well sounds like a moral dilemma. If it were me I’d try to remain friends but ultimately have to accept that the balls in her court.

    p.s. in my opinion, shes got a family. I wouldn’t wanna screw that up. But again she has to be the one to make the decision.