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Baby mama drama

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    Juliette93
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    October 13, 2015 at 1:43 am #86824
    Baby mama drama

    I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for three months now. We spend almost every day together (neighbors) and have grown really close. He’s a very honest person and that’s something I love about him. When we first met he let me know that he cheated on his child’s mother with a woman who is claiming he is the father of her 10 month old. He denies paternity because he says that she was seven weeks pregnant three weeks after their first sexual encounter. She also admitted to having sex with two other men around the time of conception. Despite knowing this, he stayed with her throughout her pregnancy but did not claim her child. He told me all about his irresponsible past and how this particular woman always managed to work her way back into his life. Naturally, I ask about her and he always lets me know when she calls and what their conversations consist of. Recently, their contact has become more frequent and he’s less forthcoming and it bothers me to the point I’ve begun phone snoo


    Juliette93
    Participant
    October 13, 2015 at 1:44 am #86825

    bothers me so much that I’ve stooped to going thru his phone. Given his history with her, I’m uncomfortable with their relationship. He says he plans on exing her out for good after he gives her a paternity test but I still don’t see a need for him to communicate with her beyond the test. I’ve hinted my discomfort but to no avail. Recently he has become a little more defensive. I’m seriously confused on what to do besides stop snooping thru his phone.


    Dreezo
    Participant
    October 18, 2015 at 5:56 pm #87028

    I think he just needs a bit of time, maybe some kind of encouragement to say he’s doing the right thing (if you think so). Give yourself a time period for this and see how it goes. Once things seem to settle, a change of scenery like a short holiday might be good to completely break off. You might also want to prepare just in case things turn out differently, good luck 😊