Books… on having an affair?!?!

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Books… on having an affair?!?!

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    Jam-man
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    March 22, 2015 at 4:57 am #75795
    Books… on having an affair?!?!

    I’m in a fairly miserable marriage going through the motions until my kids are over 16 when. Both me and my wife have drifted apart and while we’ve not really talked properly about it divorce is on the cards.

    Thing is, I’ve met this amazing woman at work and she’s made it quietly clear that she would not be adverse to getting together. I’ve got 18 months until my youngest’s 16th and I don’t want to hang around and risk loosing this chance.

    Someone at work found a book on Amazon actually, there’s 2… Has anyone read them? It’s not like they are expensive but I don’t want to tempt myself, it’s hard enough not bundling this girl into a meeting room at work and locking the door… I know she’s not far off doing it to me! If these books have any merit and I can have this stunning funny beautiful woman without risking being screwed…


    nico2819
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    March 23, 2015 at 8:34 am #75797

    Hmm, having come out of a relationship where there was an affair even though the relationship was pretty much over still sucked. To be honest and to have some respect towards your children and their mother which at one point I’m assuming was the one you had wanted to spend your life with wait and get the divorce. Or in the very least make talk to your wife and make sure she actually feels the same. As far as the other woman goes remember she might just be attracted to the fact that you are married, also she’s a coworker and if things don’t work out you’ll have to continue to work with her. And one thing I have learned from experience is that anytime something starts in a lie in never ends well. Also, if you do get divorced you don’t want your wife holding the affair against you if she finds out which it will eventually come out. So wait until you free and single so you can truly enjoy this woman or anyone else company guilt free.


    Love and marriage
    Participant
    April 23, 2015 at 10:46 am #77784

    Don’t do it! It will completely mess your entire family up. No good relationship can be built on an unstable foundation.


    shizzle
    Participant
    April 26, 2015 at 8:04 am #77897

    don’t know


    diesel67
    Participant
    April 28, 2015 at 12:52 pm #77951

    never good idea to cheat. It is not worth the headache.