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    LostinLove007
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    March 9, 2016 at 10:59 pm #95333
    Boyfriend had Phone Sex with EX! Help REPLY

    Hello everyone, Im LostinLove and need help me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and been loyal up to a certain point. He told me when we were going through a hot spot that he had phone sex with his EX that called him one night. I said we weren’t even broken up!!! I had a hot fit we settled something but I need help if I am looking at this wrong. We are still together…right now. First of all his communication sucks and he’s like he wont do it again but I feel hurt. I can say he’s a nice guy but not when did that. Should I stay with him what do I do on this. He said it wont happen again that he was mad at me. However I feel like Im in a bad movie. It was phone sex??? PLease respond

    • This topic was modified 1 year, 7 months ago by LostinLove007 LostinLove007.

    Green2711
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    March 9, 2016 at 11:17 pm #95337

    I think you already know the answer, a leopard doesn’t change its spots. It’s only phone sex and not physical but it’s the intention. If I was you I would drop him like a hot potato and even if you was having a row it’s still no excuse. If he was really loyal then he wouldn’t have done it but he did. I know this isn’t what you want to hear and I’m sorry this happened to you but I’d say go find someone that treats you right.


    Green2711
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    March 10, 2016 at 12:03 am #95343

    I would, mate. I still see it as being disloyal, would you mind if the shoe was on the other foot? I know I would if I found out my partner had been getting intimate with an ex in any shape or form. I would be thinking that more actually went on than just phone sex but maybe that’s just me,

    LostinLove007
    LostinLove007
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    March 10, 2016 at 9:02 am #95338

    You’re right on the leopard doesn’t change its spots


    heavensent1108
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    March 10, 2016 at 9:44 am #95369

    Oh wow! I am so sorry you are dealing with this! I would consider it cheating as well, it not like he has a platonic conversation he brought it to a sexual level! He needs to ask himself how he would feel if you did the same thing. Also, just because he’s mad he can’t just have phone sex with an ex. He is using her and you! I would have a serious conversation and possibly look into going to therapy.


    Green2711
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    March 11, 2016 at 11:34 am #95451

    So you wouldn’t mind your partner getting sexual satisfaction from another person? What is the point in being in a relationship at all then? Would you mind if your partner went about kissing, groping, sending nude pictures to other people because it gives her sexual satisfaction and isn’t technically sex?

    Phone sex doesn’t do anything for me, it’s like jacking off to erotic literature or having cybersex, generally very unfulfilling so I can see your point in a way but he is still getting intimate with someone else and that would beg the question if he needs to get intimate with someone else then why are you around?

    LostinLove007
    LostinLove007
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    March 12, 2016 at 11:16 am #95479
    Reply To: Boyfriend had Phone Sex with EX! Help REPLY

    Thanks for the replys everyone. Great thought in all post

    laura
    laura
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    March 12, 2016 at 6:44 pm #95488
    Reply To: Boyfriend had Phone Sex with EX! Help REPLY

    I think it is disrespectful. He was mad at you? Give me a break!

    LostinLove007
    LostinLove007
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    June 20, 2016 at 5:38 pm #103713

    Hey everyone he broke up with me, after I forgave him 2 months later. He also is still talking with his ex. I feel so bad about myself. He broke up with me 4 days before our 3 year mark.

    eljay
    eljay
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    July 5, 2016 at 8:04 am #104403
    Reply To: Boyfriend had Phone Sex with EX! Help REPLY

    It is for the best, time will heal all wounds. learn from this. do not go back with him he will continue to mess with his ex. Love yourself first