Break up or not

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Break up or not

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    ssashaa
    Participant
    March 23, 2018 at 4:20 am #168229
    Break up or not

    So I am 20. My boyfriend and I share a relationship since last 2 years. He had a crush on me since last 7 years. He is a really nice romantic guy with good sense of humour. But lately, he thinks that I do not prioritise him and that’s why doesn’t want to give me understanding for everything. He thinks that I take him for granted. He is pretty possessive. We both have anger issues too. When I usually get angry, I abuse him and his family, for which he has asked me to stop many a times in past. He also warned me that he would raise his hand on me next when I do so. Still one day, I couldn’t control and abused him since he kept telling me “ abuse and show, then you see the consequences”. He then did raise his hand on me. I further abused. We stopped talking and I left. It’s been 50 days since I left and he has been extremely depressed about it and has tried contacting me . He is trying really hard to get me back. Should I stay or not?


    jtb333
    Participant
    March 23, 2018 at 6:06 am #168233

    In my opinion, it sounds like it’s in your both your best interests to break up. A relationship that is abusive or threatening really can’t be good. The chemical withdrawal from love is going to hurt for a bit. But it will most likely be worth it in the end


    Ajohn123
    Participant
    March 23, 2018 at 6:58 am #168235

    Break up. It will be worth it in the end


    ssashaa
    Participant
    March 23, 2018 at 7:15 am #168236

    We tried breaking up many times but it just doesn’t happen. We are in the same class and have to face each other on daily basis. He is willing to change, should I give it another chance