Can I change his mind?

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Can I change his mind?

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    pops09
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    November 2, 2015 at 3:28 pm #87782
    Can I change his mind?

    So i started speaking to a guy on match.com last week and we messaged eachother pretty much everyday. He is Greek and I am Indian. I have never dated out of my culuture before but knew that I wanted to try. We exchanged numbers and have been messaging for three/four days , from what we have spoke about we seem to want the same things and it is very hard to find that nowadays. We have spoken on the phone once and he has a very strong accent but i still understood him. I texted him the next morning saying that It won’t work out , the accent did put me off a little but did not tell him this. I now think have I made a mistake and rushed in to a decision based on something very silly when I should have given him a chance. I do also feel nervous about being in a situation that ive never been in before. I tend to get put off by the sillest and smallest of things but ffeel like im ruining my chances of meeting a genuine person . How can I rectify this situation?

    • This topic was modified 1 year, 11 months ago by  pops09.

    allieap
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    November 2, 2015 at 10:43 pm #87796

    I say you should be honest with him. You found each other on a dating website so you both know each other’s intentions, so just explain to him that you’re vulnerable to new people and quick to find reasons to not pursue promising relationships. Tell him it is something you are trying to work on, and would like to continue talking. Offer to take him out somewhere.


    pops09
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    November 3, 2015 at 4:21 am #87812

    the only thing that is keeping me from texting him now is if he does give me another chance and it doesn’t work out it will be another slap in the face for him