toffee1878ParticipantApril 19, 2017 at 9:58 am #133635
I spoke to a girl for 3 months all day everyday, that ended and we fell out she called me needy, so I took advice on here and people said not contact her for 2 weeks but she literally contacted on the night i asked for advice on here previously, so that screwed that advice up, then I tried not contacting her for a few days and she messaged me on Easter Sunday and we spoke the whole day, few days pass and I ask her if she wants to start talking like we used to again and now she ignores me, why is she doing this? She’s saying she doesn’t want to talk then talks to me a few days later and then that process gets repeated as it has done for the past 2 weeks
AnonymousApril 24, 2017 at 10:52 am #134145
It sounds like she may want to talk just not all day. If she likes you maybe she wants you to ask her out? Maybe she’s frustrated you haven’t ask her out.
richiroParticipantApril 24, 2017 at 12:00 pm #134172
its the classic girls game – if you’er too available and they know they have you – they aren’t interested.
if you aren’t paying attention and they dont’ know if they have you anymore – they need to know and win you back and get clingy.
If you realize this – the above makes TOTAL sense.
So how do you win her over? Stay distant enough that she keeps coming to you.. then take advantage and enjoy it when she does… but don’t become TOO available that she never misses you and gets disinterseted.
Ultimately.. i guess my real advice is – a girl who plays the game THIS MUCH – may want to pass on her.
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