can't ever seem to get to the first date

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can't ever seem to get to the first date

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    rmacca1511
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    March 27, 2017 at 2:11 pm #131256
    can't ever seem to get to the first date

    Im a bit of a loner due to my job being quite isolated and me being quite a shy introvert. So most of my life i’ve struggled to get girls to like me. I start talking with them and it goes ok but eventually it fizzles out before we get to the first date. I have no clue how to keep them interested. It goes great first week but my conversations can be too generic like i’ll ask them questions about themselves but then when I get as much information as is humanly possible out of them i dont know how to proceed.

    I’ve had a few examples these past few weeks where I’ve been talking with them had lots in common but eventually before the first date happens the girl just starts being quite reclusive to me and doesnt want to know me, despite saying she enjoys talking to me a few days before.

    I don’t know what it is I do wrong im a nice friendly guy and easy to talk to and I can be a good chatter… but this is getting ridiculous every time it just fizzles out i don’t know what to do


    fencer girl
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    March 27, 2017 at 4:08 pm #131285

    I have the exact same problem with guys…best of luck