Changing my negative attitude to relationships???

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Changing my negative attitude to relationships???

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  • sxystf
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    October 17, 2016 at 4:38 pm #114382
    Changing my negative attitude to relationships???

    I am an 18 first year university student and had been struggling with finding a girlfriend for the past 4 years. My best mate from high school was a popular guy and would always date the most popular and best looking girls at school. My female friends at school were also very hot and popular. I believe this had influenced me negatively as I only desire such kind of girls as a girlfriend and rejected a few girls because they were not like them and I wanted such kind of girlfriend in order to get attention and respect from my peers. I have in the past been willing to tolerate being single if I believed that I would get such girlfriend. I also feel like I’m “owed” such girl because of him and never liked and even considered other, available girls.
    That friend now lives in another city but still affected by that influence that started when I was 14. This negative and unhealthy attitude has caused negative experiences with girls and general negative attitude to dating.