Clueless guy? Or I'm clueless?


Clueless guy? Or I'm clueless?

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    September 17, 2017 at 8:52 pm #149301
    Clueless guy? Or I'm clueless?

    Hi! Went on a few dates (drinks on one and dessert on the other) with a guy I met online some months ago. Nothing touchy happened on either, but we had really good conversations and expressed mutual enjoyment. Then we didn’t talk for a few months (I had work overseas). I reconnected with him a week ago and we got drinks. Same thing: nothing touchy but he said he had a good time at the end. He’s not flirty or touchy at all and I’m also not. I was hoping he’d take the lead, but that hasn’t happened. When I text him he replies well, but so far he doesn’t initiate. It’s been a few days with no communication. I think I really like him, but I’m clueless about how he actually feels about having a relationship of any kind with me. What should my next step be?

    September 17, 2017 at 10:57 pm #149306

    Maybe he’s just shy and hesitant to make the first move? I think the only way to find out might be to make the first move yourself in this situation! I don’t think he’d keep going out with you if he wasn’t interested..

    September 18, 2017 at 9:44 am #149302

    Wait a few more days. Then you can text to ask how he’s been and then let him take it from there