Confronting him about his online profile

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Confronting him about his online profile

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    C. Price
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    April 11, 2013 at 9:30 am #28376
    Confronting him about his online profile

    This post was submitted by Pat, can anyone help?

    “Going out with a guy for a couple of months. Each of us said to one another we were not dating anyone else and if we found someone we wanted to date we would tell one another. Next week I saw he had been online, confronted him about it and he said he hadn’t been online in a long time. I reiterated our understanding. And he said he did not like being called a liar and now he didn’t want to see me anymore and I wasn’t the right person for him. Is this guy a liar, or is there a chance he may show up as online without actually logging in?”

    NYC_guy
    NYC_guy
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    April 12, 2013 at 3:30 pm #28507

    I don’t think it’s too uncommon to see people still dab onto their profiles and browse if any new matches came up. Are you two officially a couple or still trying to see if you’re a match?

    He might have other intentions to online dating too. Ask what he’s looking for and if he sees himself with you at all. If he’s unsure and would rather be dating around then let him be. There’s no use in trying to tie a man down if he’s only looking for fun. I’ve never seen a woman be able to do that unless by force or 3rd party standards. When a guy is ready to settle, he will.


    SandMan
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    April 15, 2013 at 11:23 am #28732

    That’s funny I just read an article here about this problem. Basically, keep in mind, even though you saw HE was online, YOU were too! He may be curious of the same thing, don’t think your investigative attempts are helping all the time, it may be hurting you.


    SandMan
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    wtop0_0
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    April 17, 2013 at 6:33 pm #29040

    Good point SandMan!