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    kitkat
    Participant
    May 12, 2013 at 8:59 pm #31018
    confused

    I met a guy online we chatted, exchanged pix and found we were attracted to each other. Took awhile but finally met. When we met it was comfortable and we got along great, plus we were attracted to each other. Things moved a little too quickly and we ended up doing things I would rather have waited on. No sex just a lot of heavy duty foreplay. I felt uncomfortable and excused myself to go upstairs to the bathroom to freshen up. I was there awhile because I felt embarrassed by what happened, when I heard the door open and close downstairs and noticed he had left! I was even more humiliated by that. Time goes by with no contact. About 2 months later I contacted him and he seemed excited to hear from me. We tried to hook up but our schedules and locations just don’t jive. He stopped contact. 3 months go by I sent him a hello email. He responded with ‘text me’ and gave me a new number. We chatted for a few days, couldn’t come to an agreement on when to meet up and contact has now ceased yet again. Should I give up on this guy? It seems we both cannot agree to a meeting time or day. I really like him.

    Kaley_love
    Kaley_love
    Participant
    May 14, 2013 at 3:45 pm #31254

    I don’t think you “really like him” I think you just want to make up for your last awkward meet up. Don’t pursue a guy who walked out on you. What’re you looking for? A hookup or a relationship?